Al-Anon Family Group - Al-Anon Family Group

nikkilou · nikkilou

Hi to all, I feel a little strange asking for prayers but i could really use some. My husband had a stroke seven years ago. He became disable and that lead to a drinking problem. Six years of hell for me. He is sober now and things are going better. We set up an appt with a...

debilyn · debilyn

My daughter and I had a wonderful time together. We took the baby on a supervised visit with her A ex. The baby is so cool. He will get redder and redder and let out a scream then calm calm and is ok again. I love how he will get a big smile then all of a sudden he looks so sad. God I love them both so much. I am so pr...

jennneeefffurrr · jennneeefffurrr

Tomorrow I am attending my 2nd face to face Al Anon meeting. I have read several posts here, and I am wondering am I supposed to ask for a support person there, like someone to call if I need help? This was not offered in the first meeting I went to, there were only 5 other people there for starters, and t...

Hopefloats · Hopefloats

Looking for your thoughts.... on why some find apologizing a reflection of weakness on their parts? Do we not all have weak moments? Are we a lesser human being in admitting maybe we have weaknesses as well as strengthes. I've yet to meet a perfect person, only my HP can claim perfection, we are human...

angeleyes8462 · angeleyes8462

I found this poem on a website thought it was uplifting. It's Up to You One song can spark a moment One flower can wake the dream. ...

cdb · cdb

I am not sure what happened to my A daughter after her miscarriage but she changed. It doesn't appear to be for the best either. She has been taking high risks again and avoiding important bank and other responsibilities. She was going to be living in a camper for the summer while her felon boyfriend wor...

Barbara · Barbara

can anyone identify? are you starting to realize your hard core is changing to a hard shell with a soft mushy core?

Barbara · Barbara

Just got the written results from my bloodwork a few weeks ago. My cholesterol has never been this good! woohoo April 06 - total 159, HDL 51 - I must be doing something right! June 05 - total 180, HDL 54, Sept 03 - total 166, HDL 44, May 03 - total 191, HDL 42 My brother had a heart attack results in bypas...

jrtjosey · jrtjosey

I woke up this morning with the word "Harmony" on my mind. It applies to so much of what we all are trying to accomplish in Al-Anon. Harmony in marriage, friendship, family, groups. So I pulled out my trusty "Pathways to Recovery" to Tradition One (Our Common welfare should come first,...

angeleyes8462 · angeleyes8462

My post earlier,

I was frustrated with the myself. Frustrated because I know what I need to do. Harder to do it. Somedays are better then others. I have learned something about myself since that post. I can't let things get to me like that it is a trigger for me. I was being unfair to myself...

rtexas · rtexas

((((Family)))) I read this and was drawn to it. I like the greatest enemy part... Thought you might enjoy it if you've never seen it. Take care of you! Great Spirit Prayer "Oh, Great Spirit, whose voice I hear in the wind, Whose breath gives life to all the world. ...

ZiggyDoodles · ZiggyDoodles

I love you guys! Here are some of my thoughts to some of the recent posts. It may be a little brutal, it may be too soft. This is just how I see it. Not trying to raise any controversy at all. My sponsor is out of town often. He travels to all the bike rallys through the US.&...

Barbara · Barbara

Im hearing that a big part of step 8 is to make amends with yourself. How do YOU do this?

cabma · cabma

My a had informed me about a month ago that he was moving out (see my old posts). He told me that I was the reason he was using and had to get away from me. I didn't believe that for a minute, I know better. But he pointed out some things I do that make him mad. I sat down and took a look a...

angeleyes8462 · angeleyes8462

I have learned something in my daily readings and thought I would share it. I tend to over analize every situation. I will think about something all the time until I have basically picked it to pieces. I need to learn to accept things are just as they are and not be so critical on every subject.&nbs...

Gailey · Gailey

As I was posting a private message today I realized something that was happening in my life. My a son and I are so alike. He is addicted to alcohol and I am addicted to food. I have not found serenity with his drinking and I have not found serenity around my bingeing. I think the only difference between him a...

Jennifer · Jennifer

Hello ((Everyone)) When am I ever gonna learn to trust my gut? Last week I posted on how I felt I was bringing bad into life by not focusing on the good. And I did learn from my thoughts and everyone's replies, I will do my best to live in the moment and enjoy without doomsdaying myself. Now I...

rosie light shines · rosie light shines

hi i am rosie and this topic "why suicide" is a real "walk down memory road" for me...... this is MY esh and MY take only , i think for me it was the hoplessness of my life...i had horrific injuries, and even tho i was MILES away from recovery, i kn...

jrtjosey · jrtjosey

Most of us come here as a supplement to our local home group, the main intentention for online support. It was not intended to be the soul source of Alanon. It is important to get to local meetings for the human contact. To limit ourselves is doing ourselves a diservice. Many who c...

QOD · QOD

I am at a desparate point now. Things are starting to get hostile at home w/my AH. He started his new job last Mon. Wed & Thurs he didn't come home. He showed Fri around 4pm smelling like rotten butt & mud (he had mud on his pants & boots - I think he must have gone to work - job...

jrtjosey · jrtjosey

"You can't win a war you don't believe in fighting" I spent a lot of time working and researching my posts yesterday to have them become a souce of controversary. They were meant to encourage and share my feelings. Thanks to all of you that recognized that took the time to&...

angel123 · angel123

`Pen in Hand Writing is a tool in alanon too me as well as slogans,concepts,steps,traditions. Pen in Hand has always bin my interset. When I worked my steps with my sponcer she suggested to write things and I was please for the suggestion, for it was something I had liked to do. I joural often...

mck · mck

im new to this,so bear with me.ive been married to my a for 20 yrs.he got help and has been sober for 60 days.he is doing great ,im doing awful.ihave so much resentment! my friends are gone,my family is all screwed up,i feel mentally impaired,&my A is great! how do i get past this? am i the onl...

lebe27 · lebe27

Just read a death certificate for a client here at work. Died from cancer as a consequence of cirrhosis as a consequence of alcohol abuse and it has put me into a state of depression. My A is 42 and already has cirrhosis. Since diagnosed two years ago when he almost died from bleeding...

notsonew1111 · notsonew1111

i wanted to update everyone on how im doing. i havnt been on here much as i have been really spending time enjoying each day, getting out there with loved ones, enjoying my job and everything. i wanted to share to everyone the progress i've made and how this program has helped me. my situati...

hmrnrnmm · hmrnrnmm

I am not real good at being heard in chat rooms so I thought I would post instead. Early Thursday we had appts, our truck sounded like crap. It is a 1979 C-10 pickup. We bought wires & spark plugs thinking that was the problem. I was dropped of at work. I had a horrible day at work...

hudsond · hudsond

My AH took me out Friday night because I had a pretty crummy couple of days and he was feeling sorry for me. So it started out by going to view the body of an acquaintance of his--drinking buddy--drank and took pills and that pretty much did him in. Anyway, so we go out to eat, he complains abou...

twinmom2 · twinmom2

Hello group, This weekend was a good weekend with some eye opening experiences. My A was his usual grumpy self during the day and happy go lucky in the evening. I realized in talking with him that I am still reacting to him, mostly his communication with me and the children. He and...

nmike · nmike

Hi friends, I just needed to share this experience. As sad as it is, I believe that my HP wanted me to learn from it. I went jogging yesterday (long run on Sunday). My dogs and the neighbor dog always go. They have such a great time exploring and chasing rabbits. There is a small part that is pretty close t...

wallsal55 · wallsal55

Was watching a morning program interviewing author "Laura Day'" book entitled "Welcome to Your Crisis". www.welcometoyourcrisis.com The word crisis comes from a word that means: to decide. (interesting!) ...

wallsal55 · wallsal55

Lots of times when I reread things I have journaled or put in my God Box...well, pretty heavy stuff. But recently, I picked up a piece of paper where I jotted down six ideas, tips on "How I would regain some self-discipline again in my life." well....ROFL....at the ve...

Tiger2006 · Tiger2006

Monday Greetings Al Anon family! I was realizing as I was reading some of the posts that some members are under two mistaken impressions: 1) they will gain recovery by mooching off those with recovery; 2) they can gain recovery by sitting around these rooms of Al Anon.

Take action! M...

Rebecca · Rebecca

hey guys the last time i posted here..my ex boyf. "A" was on the run after leaving the country... when he was gone 3 days i had gotten sooo many voicemails telling me he was alone and had lost the guy he was travelling with, he said he had no money, no food, sleeping on the streets, he had been in hospital an...

jrtjosey · jrtjosey

Did somestudying this afternoon on our survey. One thingI think that will solve a lot of problems is living by the Golden Rule. Twelve-Step programs are a microcosm of the larger society around us. Addiction doesn't discriminate; it cuts across socio-economic lines and racial and gender...

rtexas · rtexas

((((my special family)))) This was an insightful weekend for me. I posted a couple of topics on compassion and ended up learning quite a bit about that and boundries. Thank you very much for that. I guess HP was asking me to study for my test this weekend when I felt compelled to...

kspear · kspear

Hello all. I just got back from an AA/Alanon convention. It was wonderful! I've been to this convention every year since I've been sober, but this was my first time as a member of Alanon. So I got to take in a little of both. I also got to pick up some good literature while I was...

Hopefloats · Hopefloats

Ok here it is. My Mom had a seizure in Jan. was hospitalized for the same.While in the horpital kept expressing concern about an unpaid bill. I told her I would bring her checkbook/purse she could make out the bill I would mail it to stop her from stressing/ rummanating about it. I brought h...

bubbles1990 · bubbles1990

Hi(((((((((((((everyone))))))))))))))) I just wanted to ask for prayers for my hubby in the morning he has a interview! HE has been laid off for 4 months and this is a great job its what he would really like to do plus it is only 1mile from the house so good for gas since gas has been going up!!!! A...

Jesie · Jesie

I am not really sure if this is where I should start or post so please forgive me I just really need some answers and support right now. I want to also say that by some grace of God have never had to deal with addictions with myself or my family members until now. I am seeking to understand and gain clarity. ...

Juster · Juster

As I read all of the posts it seems that there is one common thread for a lot of us. Somewhere along the line there was alcoholism involved before we met our AW, AH, ABF,AGF, etc. It took me a long time to realize it, but looking back I see that my mother was a very functional alcoholic, just lik...

hudsond · hudsond

It all started yesterday really. I have tried really hard this week to stay busy and not wonder what my a is up to. Things have been going relatively well. He has actually been in pretty good spirits and not overly gouchy for the few days. Of course I notice the fish disappearing from...

bob6502 · bob6502

General Business Group Conscience Meeting May 3, 2006 Chair: SenoraBob Agenda Items General Opening of Metting followed by: OLD BUSINESS 1. Approval of Minutes - April 5, 2006 2. Meeting Schedule & Request for Volunteers -SenoraBob 3. Financial Repor...

seachange · seachange

Hi Everyone! Have any of you been diagnosed with PTSD, and if so, have you done anything specifically about this disorder in your recovery, or just used the Al-Anon program for a generalised, across the board recovery? I was diagnosed with this several years ago, and even though things are m...

Andrea12 · Andrea12

Friends, I have been on an emotional roller coaster for years. Although it is not as fast right now I am doing better. Starting over for me is also a bit emotional. However, not as crazy as living with an active A. I have been to see an attorney, know where I stand. Trying to move forward, this is al...

bob6502 · bob6502

Sorry it took me so long folks. Here are the results of the group inventory. There were 54 people that responded. Thank you to those that participated. The purpose of a group inventory is to determine if the group is healthy, and if there are things we need to improve on or suggestions for topics for meet...

regrets · regrets

I went. But the place it was listed is no more. So.....any advice to get me throguh the day? Have heard from him yet. We're suppose to talk this week about what to do next with this marriage. I'm anxious and nervous about talking to him since he's been so mean and controlling. If I don't do what he wants then...

Barbara · Barbara

do you feel like a nag? Ive only called a few times. We usually talk (and have coffee) for an hour before our weekly f2f meeting. She was stressing yesterday that yes its good to read/journal but its important to reach out and make those phonecalls. Ive only called her a few times in the past mont...

jrtjosey · jrtjosey

The Serenity Prayer God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; courage to change the things I can; and wisdom to know the difference. Living one day at a time; Enjoying one moment at a time; Accepting hardships as the pathway to peace; Taking, as He did, this sinful world as it is...

ditto · ditto

I could really use your great good sense right now. My A 14 year old dog, Daisy to the animal shelter today. He is leaving here tomorrow. I begged him not to take Daisy but he said that he can't take her where he is going. He had originally told me that he was going on vacation and c...

hmrnrnmm · hmrnrnmm

I am peeved. I had a very difficult time getting online tonite. I had to reboot the computer like 3 or 4 times. The screen kept freezing up. I cleaned the computer in hopes of having it run faster. I finally got into " miracles in progress" about 10 min till it was over. I hung around after the meeti...

ImOkay · ImOkay

Had a good morning today with my a. That hasn’t happened for a while. I think one of the contributing factors was my effort to hold my peace, guard my heart, or protect my serenity. (However you want to say it.) I’m learning about internal boundaries – emotional boundaries. I’m finding that I somet...

JStickels · JStickels

I need some more feed back if I am doing what is right with my son. His dad is the alcoholic and is very manipulative. My son is now 18 and is living with me. His dad has lost his house and is now living down the street temporarily with a friend. My husband and I have told Joey...

horselover58 · horselover58

I am wondering if anyone else feels the same way. I feel like an outsider, like I don't belong. My husband has his drinking buddies close by, one is next door, lucky me. lol. The wife is an A too, we have NOTHING in common. His other buddy has a non-alcoholic wife, we have a lot in common, but she is in denial....

serendipity · serendipity

my ah called on tuesday with the i can't do this without you speech.havent heard from him again till tonight,i'm doing ok, not great, my own feelings and issues.so i tell him about what's going on in my life- dad dying down to a few weeks now. all that goes along with losing a parent. it is the end of my world...

Hopefloats · Hopefloats

Tell me about forgiveness? Is it something that can come and go within ones personality? I'd thought of my self as a forgiving person in the past. Yet now going through a divorce... actually feeling emotions that have been stuffed for so long..... I find myself with little tolerance of my&nb...

wallsal55 · wallsal55

Hey, this really helped me when my husband drank.... I wadded up kleenex (after drying my tears) and threw them at our wedding picture. I never felt so much better afterwards! And I didn't destroy anything or anybody. (Electronic darts helps, too.&n...

Karilynn · Karilynn

((((((((((((((((Good morning family)))))))))))))))), Before I run off to work this morning, I did my daily readings, which includes the Today's Gift from the hazeldon.org. It is particularly good this morning as it deals with anger, and as we all know we all deal with the anger from our A's, at...

katrina2000 · katrina2000

I lived with a man who was an alcoholic for five years. During that time we had a son together. The "A" hated me for a long time for getting pregnant. He then told me once I had "earned" back his trust he would marry me. I could never earn his trust. I was always making him an...

Karilynn · Karilynn

((((((((((((((Family)))))))))))))))))))), I would like to ask some questions of a recovering alcoholic, who has relapsed, if possible. If there is anyone whom would like to answers a few questions, I'd be greatful for the input. Please PM when you have a moment. All is well here, but I cou...

hmrnrnmm · hmrnrnmm

We live in the rural country. We have been rescuing animals for the past 12 years. We have 30 dogs & 9 cats, plus 2 ducks & 2 goats. We have 14 dogs & 7 cats for adoption. No one has been adopted since Sept. We are not a business just 2 folks trying to help the overpopulation. So to...

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	prayers (Preview) Hi to all, I feel a little strange asking for prayers but i could really use some. My husband had a stroke seven years ago. He became disable and that lead to a drinking problem. Six years of hell for me. He is sober now and things are going better. We set up an appt with a...	nikkilou	4	480	May 3, 2006 by Dolphin123
	Update and would appreciate thoughts (Preview) My daughter and I had a wonderful time together. We took the baby on a supervised visit with her A ex. The baby is so cool. He will get redder and redder and let out a scream then calm calm and is ok again. I love how he will get a big smile then all of a sudden he looks so sad. God I love them both so much. I am so pr...	debilyn	18	608	May 3, 2006 by TLC2
	2nd AlAnon meeting tomorrow for me (Preview) Tomorrow I am attending my 2nd face to face Al Anon meeting. I have read several posts here, and I am wondering am I supposed to ask for a support person there, like someone to call if I need help? This was not offered in the first meeting I went to, there were only 5 other people there for starters, and t...	jennneeefffurrr	7	627	May 3, 2006 by jennneeefffurrr
	Apologies (Preview) Looking for your thoughts.... on why some find apologizing a reflection of weakness on their parts? Do we not all have weak moments? Are we a lesser human being in admitting maybe we have weaknesses as well as strengthes. I've yet to meet a perfect person, only my HP can claim perfection, we are human...	Hopefloats	7	639	May 3, 2006 by Hopefloats
	Found this thought I would share (Preview) I found this poem on a website thought it was uplifting. *It's Up to You* *One song can spark a moment One flower can wake the dream. ...*	angeleyes8462	3	510	May 3, 2006 by Ria
	daughter struggling, parents not well :( (Preview) I am not sure what happened to my A daughter after her miscarriage but she changed. It doesn't appear to be for the best either. She has been taking high risks again and avoiding important bank and other responsibilities. She was going to be living in a camper for the summer while her felon boyfriend wor...	cdb	14	912	May 2, 2006 by cdb
	Hard core changing to hard shell/soft core ? (Preview) can anyone identify? are you starting to realize your hard core is changing to a hard shell with a soft mushy core?	Barbara	3	504	May 2, 2006 by abbyal
	taking care of myself physically (Preview) Just got the written results from my bloodwork a few weeks ago. My cholesterol has never been this good! woohoo April 06 - total 159, HDL 51 - I must be doing something right! June 05 - total 180, HDL 54, Sept 03 - total 166, HDL 44, May 03 - total 191, HDL 42 My brother had a heart attack results in bypas...	Barbara	2	438	May 2, 2006 by Maria123
	Harmony (Preview) I woke up this morning with the word "Harmony" on my mind. It applies to so much of what we all are trying to accomplish in Al-Anon. Harmony in marriage, friendship, family, groups. So I pulled out my trusty "Pathways to Recovery" to Tradition One (Our Common welfare should come first,...	jrtjosey	4	596	May 2, 2006 by mebjk
	Appology to myself for letting me get in the way (Preview) My post earlier, I was frustrated with the myself. Frustrated because I know what I need to do. Harder to do it. Somedays are better then others. I have learned something about myself since that post. I can't let things get to me like that it is a trigger for me. I was being unfair to myself...	angeleyes8462	1	471	May 2, 2006 by Barbara
	Great Spirit (Preview) ((((Family)))) I read this and was drawn to it. I like the greatest enemy part... Thought you might enjoy it if you've never seen it. Take care of you! Great Spirit Prayer "Oh, Great Spirit, whose voice I hear in the wind, Whose breath gives life to all the world. ...	rtexas	4	456	May 2, 2006 by drucilla06
	Supplement? How about recovery? (Preview) I love you guys! Here are some of my thoughts to some of the recent posts. It may be a little brutal, it may be too soft. This is just how I see it. Not trying to raise any controversy at all. My sponsor is out of town often. He travels to all the bike rallys through the US.&...	ZiggyDoodles	6	665	May 2, 2006 by david62
	how do you make amends with yourself? (Preview) Im hearing that a big part of step 8 is to make amends with yourself. How do YOU do this?	Barbara	5	4359	May 2, 2006 by Tiger2006
	letting god... (Preview) My a had informed me about a month ago that he was moving out (see my old posts). He told me that I was the reason he was using and had to get away from me. I didn't believe that for a minute, I know better. But he pointed out some things I do that make him mad. I sat down and took a look a...	cabma	5	598	May 2, 2006 by hudsond
	In my readings found something about my self (Preview) I have learned something in my daily readings and thought I would share it. I tend to over analize every situation. I will think about something all the time until I have basically picked it to pieces. I need to learn to accept things are just as they are and not be so critical on every subject.&nbs...	angeleyes8462	4	466	May 2, 2006 by Ria
	I can relate to my A (Preview) As I was posting a private message today I realized something that was happening in my life. My a son and I are so alike. He is addicted to alcohol and I am addicted to food. I have not found serenity with his drinking and I have not found serenity around my bingeing. I think the only difference between him a...	Gailey	3	567	May 2, 2006 by QOD
	It's gonna be a long day and I am gonna smile anyway (Preview) Hello ((Everyone)) When am I ever gonna learn to trust my gut? Last week I posted on how I felt I was bringing bad into life by not focusing on the good. And I did learn from my thoughts and everyone's replies, I will do my best to live in the moment and enjoy without doomsdaying myself. Now I...	Jennifer	3	684	May 2, 2006 by jrtjosey
	LONG---someone asked me "why suicide"?? (Preview) hi i am rosie and this topic "why suicide" is a real "walk down memory road" for me...... this is MY esh and MY take only , i think for me it was the hoplessness of my life...i had horrific injuries, and even tho i was MILES away from recovery, i kn...	rosie light shines	3	3377	May 2, 2006 by kitty
	why r u here? (Preview) Most of us come here as a supplement to our local home group, the main intentention for online support. It was not intended to be the soul source of Alanon. It is important to get to local meetings for the human contact. To limit ourselves is doing ourselves a diservice. Many who c...	jrtjosey	15	858	May 2, 2006 by gardengal
	How do I get the ball rolling to leave? (Preview) I am at a desparate point now. Things are starting to get hostile at home w/my AH. He started his new job last Mon. Wed & Thurs he didn't come home. He showed Fri around 4pm smelling like rotten butt & mud (he had mud on his pants & boots - I think he must have gone to work - job...	QOD	6	664	May 2, 2006 by QOD
	posts taken out of context (Preview) "You can't win a war you don't believe in fighting" I spent a lot of time working and researching my posts yesterday to have them become a souce of controversary. They were meant to encourage and share my feelings. Thanks to all of you that recognized that took the time to&...	jrtjosey	5	567	May 2, 2006 by Diva
	Pen in Hand (Preview) `Pen in Hand Writing is a tool in alanon too me as well as slogans,concepts,steps,traditions. Pen in Hand has always bin my interset. When I worked my steps with my sponcer she suggested to write things and I was please for the suggestion, for it was something I had liked to do. I joural often...	angel123	3	636	May 2, 2006 by angel123
	lost (Preview) im new to this,so bear with me.ive been married to my a for 20 yrs.he got help and has been sober for 60 days.he is doing great ,im doing awful.ihave so much resentment! my friends are gone,my family is all screwed up,i feel mentally impaired,&my A is great! how do i get past this? am i the onl...	mck	9	516	May 2, 2006 by Jennifer
	Depressed (Preview) Just read a death certificate for a client here at work. Died from cancer as a consequence of cirrhosis as a consequence of alcohol abuse and it has put me into a state of depression. My A is 42 and already has cirrhosis. Since diagnosed two years ago when he almost died from bleeding...	lebe27	7	658	May 2, 2006 by Karilynn
	a change in me....... (Preview) i wanted to update everyone on how im doing. i havnt been on here much as i have been really spending time enjoying each day, getting out there with loved ones, enjoying my job and everything. i wanted to share to everyone the progress i've made and how this program has helped me. my situati...	notsonew1111	7	494	May 2, 2006 by nmike
	hoping this change is for real (Preview) I am not real good at being heard in chat rooms so I thought I would post instead. Early Thursday we had appts, our truck sounded like crap. It is a 1979 C-10 pickup. We bought wires & spark plugs thinking that was the problem. I was dropped of at work. I had a horrible day at work...	hmrnrnmm	0	392	May 1, 2006 by hmrnrnmm
	Weekend-long again (Preview) My AH took me out Friday night because I had a pretty crummy couple of days and he was feeling sorry for me. So it started out by going to view the body of an acquaintance of his--drinking buddy--drank and took pills and that pretty much did him in. Anyway, so we go out to eat, he complains abou...	hudsond	2	459	May 1, 2006 by d53sjurne
	Still chipping away at my boundaries (Preview) Hello group, This weekend was a good weekend with some eye opening experiences. My A was his usual grumpy self during the day and happy go lucky in the evening. I realized in talking with him that I am still reacting to him, mostly his communication with me and the children. He and...	twinmom2	4	491	May 1, 2006 by emma
	a defining moment (Preview) Hi friends, I just needed to share this experience. As sad as it is, I believe that my HP wanted me to learn from it. I went jogging yesterday (long run on Sunday). My dogs and the neighbor dog always go. They have such a great time exploring and chasing rabbits. There is a small part that is pretty close t...	nmike	2	533	May 1, 2006 by hudsond
	The word "Crisis" (Preview) Was watching a morning program interviewing author "Laura Day'" book entitled "Welcome to Your Crisis". www.welcometoyourcrisis.com The word crisis comes from a word that means: to decide. (interesting!) ...	wallsal55	1	688	May 1, 2006 by d53sjurne
	Humor in Journaling.... (Preview) Lots of times when I reread things I have journaled or put in my God Box...well, pretty heavy stuff. But recently, I picked up a piece of paper where I jotted down six ideas, tips on "How I would regain some self-discipline again in my life." well....ROFL....at the ve...	wallsal55	1	460	May 1, 2006 by Barbara
	Monday Greetings! (Preview) Monday Greetings Al Anon family! I was realizing as I was reading some of the posts that some members are under two mistaken impressions: 1) they will gain recovery by mooching off those with recovery; 2) they can gain recovery by sitting around these rooms of Al Anon. Take action! M...	Tiger2006	2	463	May 1, 2006 by buzzfree
	Update on my situation...... (Preview) hey guys the last time i posted here..my ex boyf. "A" was on the run after leaving the country... when he was gone 3 days i had gotten sooo many voicemails telling me he was alone and had lost the guy he was travelling with, he said he had no money, no food, sleeping on the streets, he had been in hospital an...	Rebecca	4	622	May 1, 2006 by Faith73
	Principals Before Personalities (Preview) Did somestudying this afternoon on our survey. One thingI think that will solve a lot of problems is living by the Golden Rule. Twelve-Step programs are a microcosm of the larger society around us. Addiction doesn't discriminate; it cuts across socio-economic lines and racial and gender...	jrtjosey	4	831	May 1, 2006 by toto12
	The disease... supporting evidence (Preview) ((((my special family)))) This was an insightful weekend for me. I posted a couple of topics on compassion and ended up learning quite a bit about that and boundries. Thank you very much for that. I guess HP was asking me to study for my test this weekend when I felt compelled to...	rtexas	2	465	May 1, 2006 by twinmom2
	A lot of stuff, I guess (Preview) Hello all. I just got back from an AA/Alanon convention. It was wonderful! I've been to this convention every year since I've been sober, but this was my first time as a member of Alanon. So I got to take in a little of both. I also got to pick up some good literature while I was...	kspear	0	483	May 1, 2006 by kspear
	Help I think I'm going crazy (Preview) Ok here it is. My Mom had a seizure in Jan. was hospitalized for the same.While in the horpital kept expressing concern about an unpaid bill. I told her I would bring her checkbook/purse she could make out the bill I would mail it to stop her from stressing/ rummanating about it. I brought h...	Hopefloats	4	657	May 1, 2006 by marmare
	Prayers appreciated... (Preview) Hi(((((((((((((everyone))))))))))))))) I just wanted to ask for prayers for my hubby in the morning he has a interview! HE has been laid off for 4 months and this is a great job its what he would really like to do plus it is only 1mile from the house so good for gas since gas has been going up!!!! A...	bubbles1990	4	484	May 1, 2006 by tiredtonite
	New to this need some advice. (Preview) I am not really sure if this is where I should start or post so please forgive me I just really need some answers and support right now. I want to also say that by some grace of God have never had to deal with addictions with myself or my family members until now. I am seeking to understand and gain clarity. ...	Jesie	7	562	May 1, 2006 by Jesie
	Why Are We Drawn To Them? (Preview) As I read all of the posts it seems that there is one common thread for a lot of us. Somewhere along the line there was alcoholism involved before we met our AW, AH, ABF,AGF, etc. It took me a long time to realize it, but looking back I see that my mother was a very functional alcoholic, just lik...	Juster	5	598	May 1, 2006 by Juster
	Not good today--long! (Preview) It all started yesterday really. I have tried really hard this week to stay busy and not wonder what my a is up to. Things have been going relatively well. He has actually been in pretty good spirits and not overly gouchy for the few days. Of course I notice the fish disappearing from...	hudsond	5	505	May 1, 2006 by hudsond
	Group Conscience Meeting May 3 (Preview) General Business Group Conscience Meeting May 3, 2006 Chair: SenoraBob Agenda Items General Opening of Metting followed by: OLD BUSINESS 1. Approval of Minutes - April 5, 2006 2. Meeting Schedule & Request for Volunteers -SenoraBob 3. Financial Repor...	bob6502	3	460	Apr 30, 2006 by david62
	Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (Preview) Hi Everyone! Have any of you been diagnosed with PTSD, and if so, have you done anything specifically about this disorder in your recovery, or just used the Al-Anon program for a generalised, across the board recovery? I was diagnosed with this several years ago, and even though things are m...	seachange	8	990	Apr 30, 2006 by nmike
	Moving Forward (Preview) Friends, I have been on an emotional roller coaster for years. Although it is not as fast right now I am doing better. Starting over for me is also a bit emotional. However, not as crazy as living with an active A. I have been to see an attorney, know where I stand. Trying to move forward, this is al...	Andrea12	2	463	Apr 30, 2006 by mel123
	Group Inventory Results (Preview) Sorry it took me so long folks. Here are the results of the group inventory. There were 54 people that responded. Thank you to those that participated. The purpose of a group inventory is to determine if the group is healthy, and if there are things we need to improve on or suggestions for topics for meet...	bob6502	8	771	Apr 30, 2006 by Diva
	attempted my ist f2f mtg (Preview) I went. But the place it was listed is no more. So.....any advice to get me throguh the day? Have heard from him yet. We're suppose to talk this week about what to do next with this marriage. I'm anxious and nervous about talking to him since he's been so mean and controlling. If I don't do what he wants then...	regrets	7	455	Apr 30, 2006 by regrets
	how often do you phonecall your sponsor? (Preview) do you feel like a nag? Ive only called a few times. We usually talk (and have coffee) for an hour before our weekly f2f meeting. She was stressing yesterday that yes its good to read/journal but its important to reach out and make those phonecalls. Ive only called her a few times in the past mont...	Barbara	1	485	Apr 30, 2006 by abbyal
	Seeking Serenity (Preview) The Serenity Prayer God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; courage to change the things I can; and wisdom to know the difference. Living one day at a time; Enjoying one moment at a time; Accepting hardships as the pathway to peace; Taking, as He did, this sinful world as it is...	jrtjosey	2	471	Apr 30, 2006 by drucilla06
	Need help fast (Preview) I could really use your great good sense right now. My A 14 year old dog, Daisy to the animal shelter today. He is leaving here tomorrow. I begged him not to take Daisy but he said that he can't take her where he is going. He had originally told me that he was going on vacation and c...	ditto	7	568	Apr 30, 2006 by maresie
	being ignored in a room (Preview) I am peeved. I had a very difficult time getting online tonite. I had to reboot the computer like 3 or 4 times. The screen kept freezing up. I cleaned the computer in hopes of having it run faster. I finally got into " miracles in progress" about 10 min till it was over. I hung around after the meeti...	hmrnrnmm	4	567	Apr 30, 2006 by peewee
	internal/emotional boundaries (Preview) Had a good morning today with my a. That hasn’t happened for a while. I think one of the contributing factors was my effort to hold my peace, guard my heart, or protect my serenity. (However you want to say it.) I’m learning about internal boundaries – emotional boundaries. I’m finding that I somet...	ImOkay	2	557	Apr 30, 2006 by JStickels
	Letting go of son (Preview) I need some more feed back if I am doing what is right with my son. His dad is the alcoholic and is very manipulative. My son is now 18 and is living with me. His dad has lost his house and is now living down the street temporarily with a friend. My husband and I have told Joey...	JStickels	4	570	Apr 30, 2006 by JStickels
	Feel like ousider (Preview) I am wondering if anyone else feels the same way. I feel like an outsider, like I don't belong. My husband has his drinking buddies close by, one is next door, lucky me. lol. The wife is an A too, we have NOTHING in common. His other buddy has a non-alcoholic wife, we have a lot in common, but she is in denial....	horselover58	5	753	Apr 30, 2006 by Becky1
	same game new winner (Preview) my ah called on tuesday with the i can't do this without you speech.havent heard from him again till tonight,i'm doing ok, not great, my own feelings and issues.so i tell him about what's going on in my life- dad dying down to a few weeks now. all that goes along with losing a parent. it is the end of my world...	serendipity	1	611	Apr 30, 2006 by nmike
	forgiveness (Preview) Tell me about forgiveness? Is it something that can come and go within ones personality? I'd thought of my self as a forgiving person in the past. Yet now going through a divorce... actually feeling emotions that have been stuffed for so long..... I find myself with little tolerance of my&nb...	Hopefloats	7	507	Apr 30, 2006 by Hopefloats
	Therapy for Anger at your A (Preview) Hey, this really helped me when my husband drank.... I wadded up kleenex (after drying my tears) and threw them at our wedding picture. I never felt so much better afterwards! And I didn't destroy anything or anybody. (Electronic darts helps, too.&n...	wallsal55	1	473	Apr 30, 2006 by d53sjurne
	Anger (Preview) ((((((((((((((((Good morning family)))))))))))))))), Before I run off to work this morning, I did my daily readings, which includes the Today's Gift from the hazeldon.org. It is particularly good this morning as it deals with anger, and as we all know we all deal with the anger from our A's, at...	Karilynn	0	455	Apr 30, 2006 by Karilynn
	trying to stop being afraid (Preview) I lived with a man who was an alcoholic for five years. During that time we had a son together. The "A" hated me for a long time for getting pregnant. He then told me once I had "earned" back his trust he would marry me. I could never earn his trust. I was always making him an...	katrina2000	5	438	Apr 29, 2006 by aunitedway
	Perspective needed (Preview) ((((((((((((((Family)))))))))))))))))))), I would like to ask some questions of a recovering alcoholic, who has relapsed, if possible. If there is anyone whom would like to answers a few questions, I'd be greatful for the input. Please PM when you have a moment. All is well here, but I cou...	Karilynn	0	407	Apr 29, 2006 by Karilynn
	kinda insulted but not upset , I just had to share. (Preview) We live in the rural country. We have been rescuing animals for the past 12 years. We have 30 dogs & 9 cats, plus 2 ducks & 2 goats. We have 14 dogs & 7 cats for adoption. No one has been adopted since Sept. We are not a business just 2 folks trying to help the overpopulation. So to...	hmrnrnmm	0	447	Apr 29, 2006 by hmrnrnmm
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