The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
think you're talking about feelings here, perhaps you're opening up to them now. I've always been a big mush since I was a kid. I'm more of a soft shell with jelly insides..lol. Think the hard core comes from having to protect ourselves from those who have harmed us in the past or present, i do have a piece of that in me too. balance comes with time..
I like tothink I have a hard shell, but I was just called on it and told that I may put on like I do, but that I do have a warm and fuzzy side, (yuk) LOL
Josey
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Julianne - It's best to move on. You cannot look back in anger in life. It's too short
Hi Barbara , gotta watch that detachment if your like me when I find something that works I always go overboard at first like the pendulum I always need to look for balance , in detachment I can have compassion but not allow anothers disease to run my life anymore. I have detached too much at times and that is not good for anyone especially me. My loved ones need to know that I care and love them but also that I am no longer l iving my life "thier"way.
