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seekingdesphelp · seekingdesphelp

I am in crisis. I'm New to ALANON. I need a sponsor. I'm in a horrible situation and my partner is a mess. Can someone help me please? I'm stuck during COVID in a large city. I am overwhelmed with ALANON and don't know where to start. I don't know what to do. Could someone help me? I feel so alone.

allsmiles228 · allsmiles228

Hi, I just discovered this group and so appreciate it. I have been to al anon and ACA in the past and am going to start again. I need to get some feedback right now. So, I grew up with alcoholics - which is why I've been to Al anon and Aca. I'm 42 now. After years of dating, I finally met a great guy. Though all m...

mamalioness · mamalioness

Self care checklist Somebody really awesome and bright posted a post like this and I thought I would steal some of it its kind of like a quickie step four so Im going to do my end of the checklist Foodate clean today, no junk food Drink plenty of water I did good today ExerciseI got on my cardio total body w...

mamalioness · mamalioness

im unpacking my lovely new futon with which I am very happy and I am using a serrated knife and I am cutting the plastic off and I sliced off the top corner of my index finger like on the very top right of my left index finger I took a piece of flesh along with putting the nail. And it just gushed blood all over th...

Iamhere · Iamhere

Good morning MIP! Today's reading is about 'Keep Coming Back' and what that can mean for one's recovery! It opens with the thought that Al-Anon is a discipline that requires diligence, patience, and consistency for the best results. All tools - meetings, Steps and practicing the principles to e...

Crmans · Crmans

Hi all! Just looking for a venting board. My husband has been sober for almost 6 weeks. (I dont keep track, he just tells me). I know thats brand new in the life of a recovering alcoholic. I am struggling as i feel that not only was he selfish in alcoholism, hes now selfish in recovery. Im not referring to th...

PosiesandPuppies · PosiesandPuppies

The daily is taken from Today's Hope. Daily Quote: "The practice of forgiveness is our most important contribution to the healing of the world." - Marianne Williamson The author of the reading shares that we are creatures of habit. One piece of evidence they say, is the fact that many of us can get st...

Elabella · Elabella

Hi all! Havent been here in a while. Two weeks ago my AH decided to get help and go to medically supervised detox and help from our specialty hospital for addiction and mental health. I didnt push or suggest anything. This was his decision. I (after going through this route last time very unsuccessfull...

mamalioness · mamalioness

well today , I went out for a drive...stopped in this sorta discount, warehouse place near me and found the cutest full sized futon you can use as a couch or a bed...its got legs so I can use risers under the legs and raise it up.....burgundy mattress....4" thick at least.....soooo sweet and it will go gr...

Freetime · Freetime

Today's author in Courage to Change dislikes being hugged, and at the end of a meeting would scurry away to avoid it. Growing up, the only kinds of touch they experienced were negative. The Al-Anon members respected that boundary and continued to be warm, welcoming, and nonjudgmental. They sat wi...

mamalioness · mamalioness

I am SO happy to say that Kerry is FINALLY starting her cancer killing pills TODAY!!!! they will monitor her during this process and so today I'll find out more details on how many and whatnot she is taking, but TODAY she begins her road to recovery.....Ohhhh I can't wait for her to begin to feel better...

mamalioness · mamalioness

Lovely day, and roommate was out all day, seeking her new home.... I feel a sense of sadness for her that she cannot seem to find sustainable living arrangements and yet relief and peace that for me it will soon be over....yea, I needed the $$$ but HP is providing for me just fine I will be ok..... today was...

mamalioness · mamalioness

Well, today, i stood to the original eviction notice and she, of course, pleaded and promised change and I just gently said, "no, I am sorry, but I am not doing this merry go round anymore...I wish you the best, honestly I do, but you must leave by Jun 3rd as per original eviction notice given to you 2 week...

Skorpi · Skorpi

In today's reading, the author shares about how much easier they find it to make decisions with the AlAnon program. Prior to program, the author struggled to make decisions because of obsessive thinking about "suffering the consequences". Now, the author instead considers "enjoying the consequ...

mamalioness · mamalioness

Well, this am, roommate decides to do DISHES at 2am , and of COURSE it is on a worknight, wakes me up so i had a bad nights sleep and go to work tired again...Seems that every "night b4 work" she pulls something so today, to take care of me, I told her that this is not working...and I am considering cutting off...

texas yankee · texas yankee

Happy Mother's Day to all the Moms ! I wanted to share a bit of the continuing saga of my journey - not as a "pat on the back" for myself, and not as any kind of "I've finally figured it all out" milestone, and MOST CERTAINLY NOT because I have any long-term confidence that I'll be on a different, better pat...

Lyne · Lyne

The author for Monday, 5/11, suggests making the relationship with ourself the best it can be. You spend more time with yourself than anyone else, you can value your own company, and be a worthwhile companion! The writer says people affected by alcoholism believe only someone else can fulfill the...

yanksfan51 · yanksfan51

Sorry all! I thought I had posted this at 7am! Good morning everyone and Happy Mother?s Day to all who are celebrating! Today?s reading is about how a willingness to change our perspective about a situation may make all the difference in how it feels to us. The writer describes moving to a new place a...

Lyne · Lyne

As today is Mothers Day, and I have a grown son, I am thinking of the challenge it was raising him. I was married to an A and had my son when I was 21. I had NO recovery whatsoever, and as you can imagine, many mistakes were made. There are two blessings however. The first is that a wonderful therapist in r...

Teslou523 · Teslou523

My ex, whom I have a 4 month old baby with, is starting to recover from being an alcoholic (this is the second time). The first time I had to leave is when I was pregnant, and I went back too soon, because right after our son was born, he started drinking again. Well, I have left for the second time, and now he i...

mamalioness · mamalioness

Beautiful crisp, sunny day, but I chose to work out on my cardio machine that gives me a total body workout...every muscle gets a good workout....so thats what I did delivered some canned kitty food to my GF up the street as my kitty prefers dry, thank goodness, because that canned stuff smells horribl...

mamalioness · mamalioness

Well my daughter dissed me again and THIS year, it was OK...It didn't matter to me, I , with love, detached from her finally ..... I had a wonderful day!!! sunny, bright, played with my pets, then went up to my elderly friend's house of the street who has adopted me as her little sister....I got her a cho...

JerryF · JerryF

It was the ladies of Al-Anon that gave my Mom the son she always wanted. Though my life with my Mom wasn't the best I could hope for and because of that I grew resentments larger than life, finding and getting into Al-Anon by the love of my Higher Power and the energies of the addicted women I use to try t...

mamalioness · mamalioness

well today will be short... I did NOTHING but rest and eat.....absolutely ZERO activity, save for feeding myself and my pets, resting and watching some good movies and docus and you know what??? I felt zero guilt....I am OK being a human being and not a human "have to be doing" all the time.........its...

PosiesandPuppies · PosiesandPuppies

Sorry for the late start. Today's reading is taken from The Language of Letting Go by Melody Beattie - a Hazelden Meditation Series book. "Sometimes we'll take a few steps backward. That's OK too. Sometimes it is necessary. Sometimes it is part of going forward." - Codependent No More The reading goe...

Enigmatic · Enigmatic

Thoughts and prayers with IAH as she is still away tending to family; here are a few thoughts about today's Courage to Change...Today's page challenges my acceptance of alcoholism as a disease over which the alcoholic, nor I, have control. Would I blame a cancer or tuberculosis patient for their sy...

iris52 · iris52

Maybe there is no answer.But there must be.It's not meetings or readings or steps.It's not faith or the Bible or church.Tried all of those.It was bad before the pandemic.Now it's really bad.I do not have murderous or suicidal urges.I do not want to hurt anyone.I just want ,,,,,,something.And yet it...

tiredtonite · tiredtonite

First let me say that I'm not a person who uses social media to connect with others. During this time when many are under stay at home restrictions, I've been receiving texts, emails and calls from people who I haven't been in touch with for some time including some estranged family members. Expectati...

JerryF · JerryF

Just left the Boob Tube which I was watching with my spouse for a while and after doing the daily readings of our literature. We were watching one of our favorites which is the National Geographic series about the Artic, people; singles, doubles, family living a strict frontier like life in the cold...

mamalioness · mamalioness

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mamalioness · mamalioness

Lovely day today, but chilly...finished up this awful tax return, but its DONE....and I know I did a good job roommate now that she has her car goes out a lot...LOVE my peace and quiet, tho she is not noisy, there are times, (usually the nite b4 I have to work or get up early for another reason) she starts dr...

Freetime · Freetime

The author of today's page in Hope for Today describes how they have changed from trying to plan their whole life, to focusing on one day at a time. Instead of dreaming about tomorrow, or a lifetime of accomplishments, they shape it with the choices they make today. Slogans like One Day At a Time, Keep I...

mamalioness · mamalioness

After i did the yard I went "bike hunting" and didn't find anything that beats my little cruiser.....so I may just stay where i am at mowed the yard, then had FUN for the REST of the day, hanging out with my friends up the street roommate goes into one of her "issues" and I just politely and nicely told her I w...

mamalioness · mamalioness

Sinus infection coming on...so not working today... I am taking care of me....Yea, I was sorry to delay his books another week, but stuff happens and all this crazy weather and breathing in pollins while doing yard work got me good.....so I am resting today If he is going to get mad at me for needing to t...

DavidG · DavidG

Poco a poco, paso a paso, día por día... Looking forwards. I was stuck, badly stuck, in a dark space. Lost. Not anger- rage! Not fear- terrified. And I had every reason to be. Our AF got to pass away in his own home 20 years ago. I had paid all the bills. He paid his own power bill, but that was all. He got sober...

Fedora · Fedora

Recently I've had some rough times with AH in that I lost my "center" and engaged in useless fights with him. I know better, and I've been contemplating how not to keep going back to zero in my own evolutionary process. Today I was able to go to my office for most of the day and have a good day there. I also go...

Skorpi · Skorpi

Today's reflection speaks about making peace with losses. It begins with a quote from Justin Langley: "There is an end to grief if we have the courage to accept our personal goodness and our ongoing right to happiness." The author suggests that time and trust are needed to make peace with our losses....

mamalioness · mamalioness

well, today was a good day till I found one of my beautiful collectible "love" mugs outside where roommate just left it out there for the dogs to maybe bump into and break I am getting tired of trying to "train" this girl to treat my things with respect, so I told her she cannot use my mugs and cups again.......

Iamhere · Iamhere

My mom has been admitted into the hospital with pneumonia, and presumptive Covid. My father took her, and had to leave her at the door. She's got heart issues, kidney issues and a few other minor issues... Only God knows if she will survive this, yet I am asking you all for prayers. For both of them. T...

mamalioness · mamalioness

I've been biting my dry, tearing fingernails and I have no nails...well, today i pulled a part off my middle finger on left hand so can't type really well... I am in pain, rubbing lotion on it to help it start to grow back and no pain when I type I am here checking in....just can't type so well...when my I...

mamalioness · mamalioness

today I went to work and thankfully the QB online crashed (yes, I am guilty of being glad) I was sooo tired from last nights drama, I hung out and taught the office mgr. who is a sweetheart some things and then left...went home and took a NAP...roommate was picking up her car and I just napped..........we...

mamalioness · mamalioness

************************************************** *********"'I always remember the friendliness and kindness and closeness we allfelt. Later, I could go anyplace in the whole United States and find afriend in A.A.'"--Henrietta D."Gratitude is the heart's memory."--French ProverbFo...

DavidG · DavidG

Not a bad one- just half an hour slip- was enough. I know a "cure" is not likely. But I am making progress, slowly. yesterday I decided that what was broken with me was going to be mended. I have a good chance of achieving this as a goal. I am grateful that I am not a drinker or doper. But I used to be a bing...

Bettertomorrow · Bettertomorrow

I think I have finally achieved compassion for my AH - after months of anger (in the beginning), frustration and then sadness, which morphed into indifference and now finally, compassion. It feels so fragile, but I am grateful to know that I can feel it, even if it might not be permanent just yet. What...

mamalioness · mamalioness

Fedora · Fedora

My AH interrupted a business meeting between me and a coworker. I could not continue the mtg bc AH would not go away. I got off the meeting and AH proceeded to accuse me of thinking of leaving AH for coworker. This is about as rooted in reality as me having an affair with a giraffe. It took absurd amounts of e...

mamalioness · mamalioness

Another brilliant day and I did NOT work....I did a food run for the church, puttered about the house, and went for a stroll on my bike..... Told roommate that she must step up and share in the housekeeping/cleaning in the common areas...She said "ok" and did some cleaning in the kitchen...I can say wha...

Lyne · Lyne

The reading for Monday, 5/4, begins with the author stating, Who am I? They thought they knew that answer but actually they didnt. They had been more involved with the alcoholics and everyone else, and lost track of themself. The Steps, and especially 4 & 5, were found to be extremely helpful i...

mamalioness · mamalioness

It's easy to feel grateful when we receive a raise, meet the love of our lifeor watch our children succeed, but spiritual gratitude is notcircumstantial. It arises from a true knowing that God is our Source.We can feel thankful for every day, even in the middle of life'schallenges.--Mary Manin Morr...

mamalioness · mamalioness

Roommate and I are just done shopping for food for the church and now we are at krogers, b/c we BOTH had a hankering for a steak... we are in the parking lot, eating our chocolate candies, finishing them up and there is this lady that roommate knew at the Christian center and she (roommate) hollars, "hey...

sunmustshine · sunmustshine

Boundaries are in tact. Feeling peaceful as heck on this gorgeous day. AH tried to come home from rehab a week ago, skipping sober living. I told him I didnt feel comfortable because of how busy I am, working from home, having my daughter at home doing school, and quite frankly I didnt have the bandwidth...

PosiesandPuppies · PosiesandPuppies

Today's reflection is taken from Today's Hope. Today is full of endless possibilities and dreams. In many cases, we are limited only by our fear and lack of hope, in others and ourselves. Each new day we are given a clean page to live in our book of life.What freedom we find when we choose to practice the a...

yanksfan51 · yanksfan51

Good morning everyone- Todays page is about step two and its reference to sanity. The writer describes trying to acknowledge how insanity would be defined for him/her. The idea that he/she was working a recovery program but still engaging in attitudes like resentment, arrogance, and revenge- no...

Enigmatic · Enigmatic

Thoughts and prayers with IAH as she is away caring for family... While AlAnon teaches many great lessons on the value of patience and 'Live and Let Live', todays reading emphasizes the importance of addressing issues that won't take care of themselves or could lead to extensive damage if unaddress...

mamalioness · mamalioness

I felt terrible giving roommate notice over the A/C thingy and her being combatative over MY need to keep the A/C at 79-80 and use FANS....I'm older, I get cold easier now...but 79 is about my limit...she wanted it colder and we had gotten "into it" over it and when she checked the thermostat and saw that...

DavidG · DavidG

Must be 8 years since we were in the USA. Travelling from New Jersey to New York An.'s mum died in NZ. We were in an okay place since her sister and nieces were in South Dakota- and we were on our way there, after a sojourn in the big apple. Was able to attend Betty's Alanon meeting for a bit of grounding. Als...

Lyne · Lyne

Everytime I open my iPad to MIP, I see Hot Rod all over the place. I sorely miss her and as painful as it is, Im glad to still her name on MIP. Lyne

mamalioness · mamalioness

Another great day, sunny, perfect for bike riding also went to goodwill and just had FUN__Got some really cute designer overrall shorts...plus 4 other pairs....and some fun body sprays and just a few goodies....it felt good, but I NEED to conserve as I don't know how long this virus is going to last,...

tiredtonite · tiredtonite

Maybe I need to get out more. Maybe I need to stay in. I had to get something in the mail today that couldn't be submitted online. I wore a mask for the first time. It's not a very good one and was very annoying. It caused me to inhale my own breath and although it was fresh leaving the house, that was absolutel...

mamalioness · mamalioness

I go into the kitchen this am and their are dishes in the dish rack, not dried and put away which is what I want....Rack , I use for if I am washing multiple dishes, yea, stick them in the rack, THEN dry and put away.....blender was dirty, AGAIN, so I removed it and cleaned it...I'll bring it back when roo...

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	In Desperate Need of a Sponsor (Preview) I am in crisis. I'm New to ALANON. I need a sponsor. I'm in a horrible situation and my partner is a mess. Can someone help me please? I'm stuck during COVID in a large city. I am overwhelmed with ALANON and don't know where to start. I don't know what to do. Could someone help me? I feel so alone.	seekingdesphelp	7	98	May 18th by WendyP
	Newly Married and discovered Husband is Alcoholic (Preview) Hi, I just discovered this group and so appreciate it. I have been to al anon and ACA in the past and am going to start again. I need to get some feedback right now. So, I grew up with alcoholics - which is why I've been to Al anon and Aca. I'm 42 now. After years of dating, I finally met a great guy. Though all m...	allsmiles228	12	156	May 18th by WendyP
	Self care checklist (Preview) Self care checklist Somebody really awesome and bright posted a post like this and I thought I would steal some of it its kind of like a quickie step four so Im going to do my end of the checklist Foodate clean today, no junk food Drink plenty of water I did good today ExerciseI got on my cardio total body w...	mamalioness	0	31	May 17th by mamalioness
	The self saboteur strikes again (Preview) im unpacking my lovely new futon with which I am very happy and I am using a serrated knife and I am cutting the plastic off and I sliced off the top corner of my index finger like on the very top right of my left index finger I took a piece of flesh along with putting the nail. And it just gushed blood all over th...	mamalioness	7	80	May 17th by mamalioness
	Courage to Change 5/14 (Preview) Good morning MIP! Today's reading is about 'Keep Coming Back' and what that can mean for one's recovery! It opens with the thought that Al-Anon is a discipline that requires diligence, patience, and consistency for the best results. All tools - meetings, Steps and practicing the principles to e...	Iamhere	10	77	May 17th by Iamhere
	Not feeling heard (Preview) Hi all! Just looking for a venting board. My husband has been sober for almost 6 weeks. (I dont keep track, he just tells me). I know thats brand new in the life of a recovering alcoholic. I am struggling as i feel that not only was he selfish in alcoholism, hes now selfish in recovery. Im not referring to th...	Crmans	16	145	May 16th by Bo
	Today's Hope 5/16/20 (Preview) The daily is taken from Today's Hope. Daily Quote: "The practice of forgiveness is our most important contribution to the healing of the world." - Marianne Williamson The author of the reading shares that we are creatures of habit. One piece of evidence they say, is the fact that many of us can get st...	PosiesandPuppies	4	41	May 16th by mamalioness
	One step forward, two steps back... (Preview) Hi all! Havent been here in a while. Two weeks ago my AH decided to get help and go to medically supervised detox and help from our specialty hospital for addiction and mental health. I didnt push or suggest anything. This was his decision. I (after going through this route last time very unsuccessfull...	Elabella	11	105	May 16th by Bo
	SELF CARE INVENTORY_FRIDAY (Preview) well today , I went out for a drive...stopped in this sorta discount, warehouse place near me and found the cutest full sized futon you can use as a couch or a bed...its got legs so I can use risers under the legs and raise it up.....burgundy mattress....4" thick at least.....soooo sweet and it will go gr...	mamalioness	1	31	May 16th by Maresie888
	C2C, May 15 - Hugs (Preview) Today's author in Courage to Change dislikes being hugged, and at the end of a meeting would scurry away to avoid it. Growing up, the only kinds of touch they experienced were negative. The Al-Anon members respected that boundary and continued to be warm, welcoming, and nonjudgmental. They sat wi...	Freetime	5	63	May 15th by Maresie888
	KERRY starts cancer meds TODAY (Preview) I am SO happy to say that Kerry is FINALLY starting her cancer killing pills TODAY!!!! they will monitor her during this process and so today I'll find out more details on how many and whatnot she is taking, but TODAY she begins her road to recovery.....Ohhhh I can't wait for her to begin to feel better...	mamalioness	12	62	May 15th by Iamhere
	SELF CARE INVENTORY_THURSDAY (Preview) Lovely day, and roommate was out all day, seeking her new home.... I feel a sense of sadness for her that she cannot seem to find sustainable living arrangements and yet relief and peace that for me it will soon be over....yea, I needed the $$$ but HP is providing for me just fine I will be ok..... today was...	mamalioness	0	19	May 14th by mamalioness
	SELF CARE INVENTORY_WEDNESDAY (Preview) Well, today, i stood to the original eviction notice and she, of course, pleaded and promised change and I just gently said, "no, I am sorry, but I am not doing this merry go round anymore...I wish you the best, honestly I do, but you must leave by Jun 3rd as per original eviction notice given to you 2 week...	mamalioness	4	29	May 14th by mamalioness
	Courage to Change, May 13 (Preview) In today's reading, the author shares about how much easier they find it to make decisions with the AlAnon program. Prior to program, the author struggled to make decisions because of obsessive thinking about "suffering the consequences". Now, the author instead considers "enjoying the consequ...	Skorpi	2	54	May 13th by tiredtonite
	SELF CARE INVENTORY_TUESDAY (Preview) Well, this am, roommate decides to do DISHES at 2am , and of COURSE it is on a worknight, wakes me up so i had a bad nights sleep and go to work tired again...Seems that every "night b4 work" she pulls something so today, to take care of me, I told her that this is not working...and I am considering cutting off...	mamalioness	5	44	May 13th by mamalioness
	And even MORE Progress, in VERY small steps, and small victories . . . . (Preview) Happy Mother's Day to all the Moms ! I wanted to share a bit of the continuing saga of my journey - not as a "pat on the back" for myself, and not as any kind of "I've finally figured it all out" milestone, and MOST CERTAINLY NOT because I have any long-term confidence that I'll be on a different, better pat...	texas yankee	10	139	May 12th by Iamhere
	C2C, 5/11, befriending ourself (Preview) The author for Monday, 5/11, suggests making the relationship with ourself the best it can be. You spend more time with yourself than anyone else, you can value your own company, and be a worthwhile companion! The writer says people affected by alcoholism believe only someone else can fulfill the...	Lyne	5	68	May 12th by Iamhere
	Hope for Today May 10 (Preview) Sorry all! I thought I had posted this at 7am! Good morning everyone and Happy Mother?s Day to all who are celebrating! Today?s reading is about how a willingness to change our perspective about a situation may make all the difference in how it feels to us. The writer describes moving to a new place a...	yanksfan51	5	72	May 12th by Iamhere
	Reflections on being a mom (Preview) As today is Mothers Day, and I have a grown son, I am thinking of the challenge it was raising him. I was married to an A and had my son when I was 21. I had NO recovery whatsoever, and as you can imagine, many mistakes were made. There are two blessings however. The first is that a wonderful therapist in r...	Lyne	9	93	May 12th by Iamhere
	Recovering Ex... (Preview) My ex, whom I have a 4 month old baby with, is starting to recover from being an alcoholic (this is the second time). The first time I had to leave is when I was pregnant, and I went back too soon, because right after our son was born, he started drinking again. Well, I have left for the second time, and now he i...	Teslou523	19	206	May 12th by Bo
	SELF CARE INVENTORY_MONDAY (Preview) Beautiful crisp, sunny day, but I chose to work out on my cardio machine that gives me a total body workout...every muscle gets a good workout....so thats what I did delivered some canned kitty food to my GF up the street as my kitty prefers dry, thank goodness, because that canned stuff smells horribl...	mamalioness	1	40	May 11th by DavidG
	SELF CARE INVENTORY_SUNDAY (Preview) Well my daughter dissed me again and THIS year, it was OK...It didn't matter to me, I , with love, detached from her finally ..... I had a wonderful day!!! sunny, bright, played with my pets, then went up to my elderly friend's house of the street who has adopted me as her little sister....I got her a cho...	mamalioness	2	40	May 11th by tiredtonite
	HAPPY MOTHERS' DAY AL-ANON MOTHERS OF MIP (Preview) It was the ladies of Al-Anon that gave my Mom the son she always wanted. Though my life with my Mom wasn't the best I could hope for and because of that I grew resentments larger than life, finding and getting into Al-Anon by the love of my Higher Power and the energies of the addicted women I use to try t...	JerryF	8	66	May 11th by JerryF
	SELF CARE INVENTORY_SATURDAY (Preview) well today will be short... I did NOTHING but rest and eat.....absolutely ZERO activity, save for feeding myself and my pets, resting and watching some good movies and docus and you know what??? I felt zero guilt....I am OK being a human being and not a human "have to be doing" all the time.........its...	mamalioness	1	36	May 10th by PosiesandPuppies
	The Daily 05/09/20 (Preview) Sorry for the late start. Today's reading is taken from The Language of Letting Go by Melody Beattie - a Hazelden Meditation Series book. "Sometimes we'll take a few steps backward. That's OK too. Sometimes it is necessary. Sometimes it is part of going forward." - Codependent No More The reading goe...	PosiesandPuppies	3	55	May 10th by Lyne
	5/7 C2C Do I See Alcohol as a Disease? (Preview) Thoughts and prayers with IAH as she is still away tending to family; here are a few thoughts about today's Courage to Change...Today's page challenges my acceptance of alcoholism as a disease over which the alcoholic, nor I, have control. Would I blame a cancer or tuberculosis patient for their sy...	Enigmatic	7	125	May 9th by a4l
	I don't think alanon is the answer for me (Preview) Maybe there is no answer.But there must be.It's not meetings or readings or steps.It's not faith or the Bible or church.Tried all of those.It was bad before the pandemic.Now it's really bad.I do not have murderous or suicidal urges.I do not want to hurt anyone.I just want ,,,,,,something.And yet it...	iris52	12	301	May 9th by Iamhere
	Rediscovering Relationships H.O.W. Honesty, Openness, Willingness (Preview) First let me say that I'm not a person who uses social media to connect with others. During this time when many are under stay at home restrictions, I've been receiving texts, emails and calls from people who I haven't been in touch with for some time including some estranged family members. Expectati...	tiredtonite	3	95	May 9th by Iamhere
	Metaphors (Preview) Just left the Boob Tube which I was watching with my spouse for a while and after doing the daily readings of our literature. We were watching one of our favorites which is the National Geographic series about the Artic, people; singles, doubles, family living a strict frontier like life in the cold...	JerryF	4	86	May 9th by JerryF
	even the horses are VIRAL (Preview) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PfYksIALj80	mamalioness	14	152	May 9th by mamalioness
	SELF CARE INVENTORY_FRIDAY (Preview) Lovely day today, but chilly...finished up this awful tax return, but its DONE....and I know I did a good job roommate now that she has her car goes out a lot...LOVE my peace and quiet, tho she is not noisy, there are times, (usually the nite b4 I have to work or get up early for another reason) she starts dr...	mamalioness	1	41	May 9th by Maresie888
	Hope for Today - May 8 - the Present Moment (Preview) The author of today's page in Hope for Today describes how they have changed from trying to plan their whole life, to focusing on one day at a time. Instead of dreaming about tomorrow, or a lifetime of accomplishments, they shape it with the choices they make today. Slogans like One Day At a Time, Keep I...	Freetime	7	70	May 8th by DavidG
	SELF CARE INVENTORY_THURSDAY (Preview) After i did the yard I went "bike hunting" and didn't find anything that beats my little cruiser.....so I may just stay where i am at mowed the yard, then had FUN for the REST of the day, hanging out with my friends up the street roommate goes into one of her "issues" and I just politely and nicely told her I w...	mamalioness	3	37	May 8th by Maresie888
	SELF CARE INVENTORY_TUESDAY (Preview) Sinus infection coming on...so not working today... I am taking care of me....Yea, I was sorry to delay his books another week, but stuff happens and all this crazy weather and breathing in pollins while doing yard work got me good.....so I am resting today If he is going to get mad at me for needing to t...	mamalioness	8	83	May 8th by Maresie888
	One day at a time... (Preview) Poco a poco, paso a paso, día por día... Looking forwards. I was stuck, badly stuck, in a dark space. Lost. Not anger- rage! Not fear- terrified. And I had every reason to be. Our AF got to pass away in his own home 20 years ago. I had paid all the bills. He paid his own power bill, but that was all. He got sober...	DavidG	3	49	May 8th by Temple
	Exercise in taking stock of my words before I say them and mulling over the alcoholics world view. (Preview) Recently I've had some rough times with AH in that I lost my "center" and engaged in useless fights with him. I know better, and I've been contemplating how not to keep going back to zero in my own evolutionary process. Today I was able to go to my office for most of the day and have a good day there. I also go...	Fedora	8	136	May 8th by SerenityRUS
	Today's Hope May 6 (Preview) Today's reflection speaks about making peace with losses. It begins with a quote from Justin Langley: "There is an end to grief if we have the courage to accept our personal goodness and our ongoing right to happiness." The author suggests that time and trust are needed to make peace with our losses....	Skorpi	1	50	May 8th by Maresie888
	SELF CARE INVENTORY_MONDAY (Preview) well, today was a good day till I found one of my beautiful collectible "love" mugs outside where roommate just left it out there for the dogs to maybe bump into and break I am getting tired of trying to "train" this girl to treat my things with respect, so I told her she cannot use my mugs and cups again.......	mamalioness	6	89	May 7th by Maresie888
	No Good Topic Title Comes to Mind ( 1 2 ) (Preview) My mom has been admitted into the hospital with pneumonia, and presumptive Covid. My father took her, and had to leave her at the door. She's got heart issues, kidney issues and a few other minor issues... Only God knows if she will survive this, yet I am asking you all for prayers. For both of them. T...	Iamhere	60	843	May 7th by iris52
	I got an "owie" (Preview) I've been biting my dry, tearing fingernails and I have no nails...well, today i pulled a part off my middle finger on left hand so can't type really well... I am in pain, rubbing lotion on it to help it start to grow back and no pain when I type I am here checking in....just can't type so well...when my I...	mamalioness	2	52	May 7th by Maresie888
	SELF CARE INVENTORY_TUESDAY (Preview) today I went to work and thankfully the QB online crashed (yes, I am guilty of being glad) I was sooo tired from last nights drama, I hung out and taught the office mgr. who is a sweetheart some things and then left...went home and took a NAP...roommate was picking up her car and I just napped..........we...	mamalioness	1	34	May 7th by Maresie888
	TID BITS OF WISDOM_TUESDAY (Preview) ************************************************ *******"'I always remember the friendliness and kindness and closeness we allfelt. Later, I could go anyplace in the whole United States and find afriend in A.A.'"--Henrietta D."Gratitude is the heart's memory."--French ProverbFo...	mamalioness	3	55	May 6th by PosiesandPuppies
	Relapse- gulp! (Preview) Not a bad one- just half an hour slip- was enough. I know a "cure" is not likely. But I am making progress, slowly. yesterday I decided that what was broken with me was going to be mended. I have a good chance of achieving this as a goal. I am grateful that I am not a drinker or doper. But I used to be a bing...	DavidG	7	108	May 5th by DavidG
	The next stage in recovery (Preview) I think I have finally achieved compassion for my AH - after months of anger (in the beginning), frustration and then sadness, which morphed into indifference and now finally, compassion. It feels so fragile, but I am grateful to know that I can feel it, even if it might not be permanent just yet. What...	Bettertomorrow	12	154	May 5th by Fedora
	The day after quarantine (Preview)	mamalioness	2	74	May 5th by PosiesandPuppies
	just a short note; enduring a short moment (Preview) My AH interrupted a business meeting between me and a coworker. I could not continue the mtg bc AH would not go away. I got off the meeting and AH proceeded to accuse me of thinking of leaving AH for coworker. This is about as rooted in reality as me having an affair with a giraffe. It took absurd amounts of e...	Fedora	11	151	May 5th by Fedora
	SELF CARE INVENTORY_SUNDAY (Preview) Another brilliant day and I did NOT work....I did a food run for the church, puttered about the house, and went for a stroll on my bike..... Told roommate that she must step up and share in the housekeeping/cleaning in the common areas...She said "ok" and did some cleaning in the kitchen...I can say wha...	mamalioness	5	67	May 4th by mamalioness
	C2C, 5/4–Who am I? (Preview) The reading for Monday, 5/4, begins with the author stating, Who am I? They thought they knew that answer but actually they didnt. They had been more involved with the alcoholics and everyone else, and lost track of themself. The Steps, and especially 4 & 5, were found to be extremely helpful i...	Lyne	4	64	May 4th by DavidG
	TID BITS OF WISDOM_SUNDAY (Preview) It's easy to feel grateful when we receive a raise, meet the love of our lifeor watch our children succeed, but spiritual gratitude is notcircumstantial. It arises from a true knowing that God is our Source.We can feel thankful for every day, even in the middle of life'schallenges.--Mary Manin Morr...	mamalioness	2	57	May 4th by tiredtonite
	A homeless lady brings a gift!!!!! (Preview) Roommate and I are just done shopping for food for the church and now we are at krogers, b/c we BOTH had a hankering for a steak... we are in the parking lot, eating our chocolate candies, finishing them up and there is this lady that roommate knew at the Christian center and she (roommate) hollars, "hey...	mamalioness	6	115	May 4th by Maresie888
	Which to Do? (Preview) Boundaries are in tact. Feeling peaceful as heck on this gorgeous day. AH tried to come home from rehab a week ago, skipping sober living. I told him I didnt feel comfortable because of how busy I am, working from home, having my daughter at home doing school, and quite frankly I didnt have the bandwidth...	sunmustshine	5	98	May 3rd by JerryF
	Hope For Today 5/2/20 (Preview) Today's reflection is taken from Today's Hope. Today is full of endless possibilities and dreams. In many cases, we are limited only by our fear and lack of hope, in others and ourselves. Each new day we are given a clean page to live in our book of life.What freedom we find when we choose to practice the a...	PosiesandPuppies	5	65	May 3rd by Maresie888
	Hope for Today May 3 (Preview) Good morning everyone- Todays page is about step two and its reference to sanity. The writer describes trying to acknowledge how insanity would be defined for him/her. The idea that he/she was working a recovery program but still engaging in attitudes like resentment, arrogance, and revenge- no...	yanksfan51	4	64	May 3rd by PosiesandPuppies
	C2C 4/30/20 Takin' Care of Business (Preview) Thoughts and prayers with IAH as she is away caring for family... While AlAnon teaches many great lessons on the value of patience and 'Live and Let Live', todays reading emphasizes the importance of addressing issues that won't take care of themselves or could lead to extensive damage if unaddress...	Enigmatic	7	108	May 3rd by Maresie888
	SELF CARE INVENTORY_SATURDAY----You are NOT gonna believe this one!!!!!!! (Preview) I felt terrible giving roommate notice over the A/C thingy and her being combatative over MY need to keep the A/C at 79-80 and use FANS....I'm older, I get cold easier now...but 79 is about my limit...she wanted it colder and we had gotten "into it" over it and when she checked the thermostat and saw that...	mamalioness	12	179	May 3rd by Maresie888
	Dreams and Schemes... (Preview) Must be 8 years since we were in the USA. Travelling from New Jersey to New York An.'s mum died in NZ. We were in an okay place since her sister and nieces were in South Dakota- and we were on our way there, after a sojourn in the big apple. Was able to attend Betty's Alanon meeting for a bit of grounding. Als...	DavidG	6	122	May 3rd by newnoz
	Missing Betty (Preview) Everytime I open my iPad to MIP, I see Hot Rod all over the place. I sorely miss her and as painful as it is, Im glad to still her name on MIP. Lyne	Lyne	22	332	May 3rd by Maresie888
	SELF CARE INVENTORY_FRIDAY (Preview) Another great day, sunny, perfect for bike riding also went to goodwill and just had FUN__Got some really cute designer overrall shorts...plus 4 other pairs....and some fun body sprays and just a few goodies....it felt good, but I NEED to conserve as I don't know how long this virus is going to last,...	mamalioness	1	41	May 3rd by Maresie888
	It's Unnerving (Preview) Maybe I need to get out more. Maybe I need to stay in. I had to get something in the mail today that couldn't be submitted online. I wore a mask for the first time. It's not a very good one and was very annoying. It caused me to inhale my own breath and although it was fresh leaving the house, that was absolutel...	tiredtonite	28	668	May 3rd by Maresie888
	SELF CARE INVENTORY_SATURDAY (Preview) I go into the kitchen this am and their are dishes in the dish rack, not dried and put away which is what I want....Rack , I use for if I am washing multiple dishes, yea, stick them in the rack, THEN dry and put away.....blender was dirty, AGAIN, so I removed it and cleaned it...I'll bring it back when roo...	mamalioness	3	46	May 2nd by Maresie888
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