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Lyne


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My spouse will celebrate her 1 year anniversary in August.  Of course it is not an easy path.  But I've noticed of late, that she is shopping and eating in excess, I assume in the place of alcohol.  I know I cannot control, change, fix, or anything else.  I just have to watch what is taking place and focus on my mental and physical health.  Has anyone in the membership experienced this kind of behavior in a newly sober alcoholic?



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Hi Lyne,

I did notice that my ex started shopping a lot when he was newly sober. It wasn't previously in his nature to make purchases like that.

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So perhaps if the alcohol is gone, that's all we can expect one day at a time. Is your spouse still sober?

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Sorry, it's your ex. You may not know that answer. But thanks for your reply. :)

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Hi Lyne, It does appear that it is the usual of one day at a time. in many ways, early sobriety can be a difficult space, but it is often temporary as there are so many adjustments.

I spent time waiting to see, but unfortunately was in the early days of my program. I haven't been in touch with my ex in years but I do hope he has found some peace.

I'm glad you have the skills and tools to focus on your serenity. Sending positive thoughts to you both at this time.

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