Al-Anon Family Group - Al-Anon Family Group

teddybear · teddybear

Hi, Last week I had a hurtful experience, and I am still feeling sad. I sponsor three people, I do my best to always be there for them because I really care. The day after my son's court case, I was still feeling nervous, and upset. One of the people who I sponsor called me ea...

gardengal · gardengal

STEP ONE: We admitted we were powerless over alcohol----that our lives had become unmanageable. Each of our lives has been devasted by someone else's drinking. We cannot change that fact. We have been profoundly affected by the disease of alcoholism, Its effects continue to mermeate our lives....

MrBlue42 · MrBlue42

hello everyone! I am new to this board so please bear with me. I would like all of your help in remembering our troops that are overseas fighting the war on terror. Please keep them in your prayers. My brother is in the army, He is a Lt Col and has 700 soldier...

Jeannie · Jeannie

I have been doing so much thinking and crying and thinking some more. I have been around all of this for so long. I have read everything there is to read. I have reread and said the prayers and slogans to myself so often. I have worked the steps, honestly and to the best of my ability alone and with a sponsor....

joeygirl · joeygirl

Any suggestions: Have been seperated for about 5 months from my qualifier who is my husband. I have made it clear that in order to get back together he would have to join AA and get a sponsor and be of service for about a year ooooooo yeah keep the same place of employment for over a year. He is living in a...

wallsal55 · wallsal55

I noticed the post below on Relapse. I have mixed feelings about it. My experience was with my husband's relapse after ten years of sobriety was this. [I felt He could find sobriety again if HE wanted it, but it would require him hitting another bottom. And it did.&nb...

wallsal55 · wallsal55

I think I have forgotten how to "act as if". We have such glorious June weather here...and I well...have just gotten plain lazy, But enjoying that laziness--is a payoff : ) I feel I deserve the relaxed time after all the stress, but I swing to the extreme...

kerry5 · kerry5

GOD SAID 'NO' (Think about this) I asked God to take away my habit. God said, No. It is not for me to take away, but for you to give it up. I asked God to make my handicapped child whole. God said, No. His spirit is whole, his body is only temporary I asked God to grant me patience. God said,...

jo4 · jo4

hi sara.......if you click onyour original post, then scroll down, the shares are posted below yours :) jo

Sara · Sara

Hi everyone, I really feel fed up today and i shall explain why.......... I have been married for nearly three years, and my husband has always liked a drink. We have been together for eight years and it he has always been this way. He can binge drink quite easily, gets very aggressive and argum...

mastiff · mastiff

hi all, Well, my husband now has about 7 months of sobriety, and he is starting to act out the dry drunk stages. Some more angry then others, and all though i know what to do with myself during these times.....I was wondering what exactly is going on inside him that makes alcoholics act out in dry...

dot · dot

Hi all - I'm having surgery on my neck on Fri to remove unwanted bone - then to re-hab for therapy on my legs. I welcome your prayers and send you my love and hugs - Dot

teddybear · teddybear

Hi cloud, Thanks for your responses to my posts, I really appreciate it!! I just wanted to let you know that I am not cathy, I am Linda (teddybear) There are so many people on this message board that it is easy to not identify people with their posting names. I hope that all is going well with you to...

mom to 2 · mom to 2

My A husband entered a 30 day inpatient facility and did "great" but came out and drank 2 days later. Started a semi program after and didn't drink for 2 weeks but drank one night but got back on board. 2 weeks later another "relapse". Stayed away for 1 week---admits he was drunk most...

Sara · Sara

Hi Guys, Thankyou for replying, but unfortunately i cannot seem to work out how to access the comments made, its driving me insane!!!!!!! Can someone please email me and let me know j.taylor3@btopenworld.com Thankyou..................

Powerless · Powerless

I am so angry tonight and don't know why. I posted earlier about expectations. I realize that I cannot impose my will on anyone else, especially an addict. But, I am still angry and wondering how he can be so stupid. How can he not see things as I do? Why doesn't he understand?&...

megan · megan

I had posted on here about sending a note to my sister-in-law informing her that I had left her brother. I read the responses, talked to my therapist and prayed on it. I wanted to tell his family because I thought they should know. So I sent my closest sister-in-law a no...

Powerless · Powerless

I have been feeling so much anger, disappointment and resentment lately. I thought it was important to write this letter to my husband. I thought it may fit your situation as well. It's not well thought out because I was feeling very emotional when I wrote it. Dear (A...

cdb · cdb

Hello friends, Once again, thanks for the prayers so much! Daughter called today and I twisted her arm to come home to have some of her past due birthday cake and open her cards. She came home since her dad wasn't here. Gosh, I wish my hubby would go to alanon etc. Anyway, we had a nice visit. She ev...

cdb · cdb

Husband stopped at her apartment. Neighbor has seen her coming and going. Out of our control now. She hasn't called us or her boyfriend. Could use continued prayers. For those of you who do not know. Daughter relapsed. Not sure what is going on. Time to take care of me :) cdb

Christy · Christy

I was cleaning out my computer and came across something that I wrote several yrs ago. Thought I'd share.. The Fog.... The fog has taken you and enveloped the man I used to know. Where are you? How can I reach you? I wonder through the fog with you, never finding you, only remembering the m...

cdb · cdb

Hello kerry5 and all, I did make amends to you last night in chat and making amends is one great thing about the alanon program. I have been in a crisis with the relapse of my daughter. I should have had a sign on me that said: Look Out, Crazy Woman! LOL I know how hard it must be to be a new OP and...

Powerless · Powerless

A light bulb finally weent off in my head. I reealized today just what everyone means when they say expectations. My husband and I took the oldrest son to the movies today and he was so high on pills that he couldn't stay awake. He snored loud enough to turn heads. I sent him to the car t...

wille · wille

Hi to all, I hope it's great all y'all's ways. The a.m. chat is becoming a less and less option for me. When I wake up - my java into chat is visually impaired. It takes about an hour for my eyes to open. Java does not support text enlarging. I have five fields of vision, so its takes a wh...

Sandyspen · Sandyspen

I'm new. So Hello everyone! I've been with A for 40 years, so I'll give a brief synopsis. 16 years into our marriage, I had had enough. There were no drinkers in my family, so I thought my hubby's problems were deep-seated issues from his own family history and childhood. But, I had simply had enough an...

lin0606 · lin0606

A post in another thread got me thinking about this. Have any of you ever been to a roundup? They are like big meetings, with both AA and Alanon. The ones I have been to have varied from just one day (usually a Saturday) to a whole weekend. In the course of a day there amy be five or six meetings where people ge...

Jeannie · Jeannie

Hi, Well last night came and went and he did not go into detox. He called them on Monday and said they did not get back to him. He said if the detox wanted him badly enough they would have kept after him. He says they are supposed to reach out to him, so it is their fault and says he will not call them again. S...

teddybear · teddybear

In Life You can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life. hmm: Sometimes when you're angry, you have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give you the right to be cruel.

This is so true!! You shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your l...

Jeannie · Jeannie

Here is a poem that my Dad said my Grandfather read to him frequently in his years growing up and my Grandfathers years in AA, fighting for sobriety. He said he has always told me to follow the girl in the mirror, and this is where he learned that from. I just wanted to share it with you all. &...

holdingon · holdingon

My husband hasn't had drink for a month now, he was attending some meetings but hasn't in weeks. I am worried he will resort back to his old behavior and pattern of drinking if he doesn't continue with his meetings or counselling to work on his issues. I want to feel happy about this, but he has gone a month...

mandy_loves_GOD · mandy_loves_GOD

I'm on step one..........I am powerlees over alcohol, my live has become unmangeable. Please tell me about your experience with step one.

Jeannie · Jeannie

Hi, I haven't posted lately, and haven't even had time to read. My daughter had her eigth grade prom this weekend,(she looked like an angel) and both her and my son are getting ready to graduate this weekend. One on Friday night and one on Monday night. I have been running around helping to get them r...

nmike · nmike

abbyal, Can you e-mail me again about the AA promises? I lost your e-mail jessage. Thanks, Nancy

jj · jj

Noticing progress in my self is really nice these days!! It is welcoming to actually be able to see the "light" and have humor rather than dispare!!

Finding that the tense feeling in my body is flowing away is just great! This has not come easily but with working my program and be...

Powerless · Powerless

I woke up this morning and found $500.00 in my purse that wasn't there when I went to bed. Since then, I found out that the neighbor my husband sold his pick-up truck to last week gave him $1000.00 last night. My husband never mentioned this to me. My first reaction was to call my husba...

honeybunnydog · honeybunnydog

I am disable due to MS and a below right knee amputation which I have had the last fifteen years. I was dignosed with a severe form of MS four years ago. I have been married to the same man for the last 13 years and togather with him for 15 years now. He is really a wonderful person who has a...

DanaAngel · DanaAngel

Hi all, Our home computer crashed about 3 weeks ago and except with the occasional peek while at work I haven't been on this site. Nice to be able to type this at home. The other half says I get cranky when I don't have my puter time. (But I functioned okay without it als...

shimo · shimo

Hi everyone, I have decided to drop my name from the list as alternate chair for Monday morning meetings. The last few weeks I have been unable to fulfill my capacity as an alternate chair for various reasons. However, if I am in the room attending the meeting on days other...

tk47834 · tk47834

Thanks to all of you for replying. I've always been a head-strong person and that is one of my biggest downfalls. It has also always been very hard for me to ask for help on anything. ( My father was the same way.) During our first years of marriage, I learned how to do everything from plu...

De Anna · De Anna

My 10 year old knows somethings up. He'll ask me "Why is daddy asleep so early" "Why can't we wake him" "Is it the alcohol he drinks?" Well, part of me wants to say all the wrong things, which would be wrong. Part of me wants to hide it, which would be wrong too. I f...

wallsal55 · wallsal55

www.thisisawar.com/AddictionPartner.htm ; Codependence [The word 'amophous' in this piece means shapeless, unorganized, etc.] -- Edited by wallsal55 at 15:33, 20...

cloud · cloud

Friends are something we are all in need of from time to time, but friends here relly make a difference!!!! So many times I have sat and wondered lately what the true meaning of a friend was???? I realize that a friend is someone you can turn to in any situation, with a problem, or a joke you want to share or&...

kismetstrand · kismetstrand

I will be out of town this Thursday (6/16) and unable to chair the Thursday night Step meeting. Step Four is the step we are on for this meeting. Thanking in advance the member who volunteers to step up and chair for me! Luv, Kis

holly123 · holly123

Ok I am really trying to get the nerve up part of taking care of me. I want to start to ask for what I want. I want affection from my husband. Affection he may not want to give, but I believe he is waiting for me to assert myself and ask. He ended a 3 year affair 9 months ago with a woman who w...

sno · sno

Hi, I posted here once a few weeks ago and have tried to convince myself that things have changed, which...not surprisingly...they have not. This past weekend was an eyeopener for me and I am making a decision. In 24 minutes I am leaving work, heading home..and I am going to lay t...

cdb · cdb

Hello Jo4, I know someone that needs a temporary sponsor. This person has learning disabilities and is a single parent with older son. This person is eager to learn and needs support. Please answer me in my private email here under cdb if you can help out. Thanks so much. cdb :)

wille · wille

Thoughts of healing and Hi to all, Thanks all for thinking of UK Josh. He is getting better and better! Totally off life support now, which is pretty awesome for a tbi (trauma brain injury) 10 year old. He can not remember some words as yet and thinks his leg is broken, as it is the part of...

honeybunnydog · honeybunnydog

Hi everyone, I went to my first family class with my A last week. He is required to take intensive outpatient therapy at this couseling center four nights a week two hours a night. One night a week is family night, and I did not go to the first three because he got the couselor at the rehab plac...

ItsmeTC · ItsmeTC

It would be really nice if there was a temporary sponsor list to help new comers. I was told to wait and listen, well I need help right away and so do many others. Knowing you are doing something is the begging of healing.

Powerless · Powerless

He got a job today and starts tomorrow. I am trying not to be negative and wonder how long he will keep the darn thing. At least it will get him out of the house each day and hopefully help us get caught up. Was offered a new position within the company I work for today and am seriously con...

nycbt · nycbt

MY BOYFRIEND TURNED HUSBAND In Aug of 99 I meet, Rick at one of my friends house. I was living alone because the person I moved down had left and I wasn’t dating anyone at the time. Rick had just gotten out of jail and was trying to get his life together. In the begin I really didn’t really notice on h...

megan · megan

i am going to send a note to my husband's sister explaining to her that I have left her brother and the reason why - his active alcoholism. It just came to me yesterday while I was riding my bike. I feel they should know. Since their brother is killing himself and when he is dead they will say...

fiona123 · fiona123

Which ....has been often in the 1st few years back in recovery ...here are some things that have helped me which I would like to share; Fear = F.alse E.vents A.ppearing R.eal Trying to stay in Just Today ... a day ( a minute) at a time The "Just for today " Bookmark REALLY helps me "Just for to...

kerry5 · kerry5

TO REALIZE > > > >To realize > >The value of a sister > >Ask someone > >Who doesn't have one. > > > >To realize > >The value of ten years: > >Ask a newly > >Divorced couple. > > > >To realize > >The value of four years: &g...

teddybear · teddybear

Hi Everyone, I have not been able to post for a time, because my computer was out of order. My husband had it reformatted, and you can be sure that it was not important for him to keep my Al-Anon site. I was so upset, yet with the help of my HP I found it again. I am so happy about th...

teddybear · teddybear

Hi Everyone, Allowing yourself to be less than perfect allows you to accomplish great things in small ways. My HP, may I remove all of the pressures I overwhelming place on myself, and do what I can, when I can. Friday evening I was the guest speaker at an Al-Anon meeting, I felt...

wallsal55 · wallsal55

This is the chart they handed me at a mental health facility (when I told them I was going crazy. They said "No, you are not, your husband has a drinking problem." Wish they'd given this paper out when I graduated high school ! Go to: www.dog...

wallsal55 · wallsal55

A pamphlet available at alanon meetings, and at www.alanon.org is "Merry Go Round Named Denial." If you are isolated from meetings, etc. it can be found at www.bendfeldt.com/alcholism.htm (note spelling) Just type these in your address ba...

cdb · cdb

Hello friends, I use to be so good at reading posts and replying. Since my situation with my parents' poor health and their moving to ND to be closer to me, I have been a mess with a routine! I haven't forgotten about you. I feel so bad I am not reading or replying. I even have 140 emails I have...

Finishgal · Finishgal

I am new in Alanon. I went to a few meetings and people gave me call lists and a few even gave me their numbers. I don't know what to do or say when I call. The meetings I went to I started to cry. My son just got back from treatment and has slipped a few times. I had a meltdown on Friday...

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	Still feeling so sad?? (Preview) Hi, Last week I had a hurtful experience, and I am still feeling sad. I sponsor three people, I do my best to always be there for them because I really care. The day after my son's court case, I was still feeling nervous, and upset. One of the people who I sponsor called me ea...	teddybear	4	968	Jun 21, 2005 by hopeful
	STEP ONE,,,,,,EXCELLENT READING (Preview) STEP ONE: We admitted we were powerless over alcohol----that our lives had become unmanageable. Each of our lives has been devasted by someone else's drinking. We cannot change that fact. We have been profoundly affected by the disease of alcoholism, Its effects continue to mermeate our lives....	gardengal	3	621	Jun 21, 2005 by holly123
	Please Remember (Preview) hello everyone! I am new to this board so please bear with me. I would like all of your help in remembering our troops that are overseas fighting the war on terror. Please keep them in your prayers. My brother is in the army, He is a Lt Col and has 700 soldier...	MrBlue42	8	660	Jun 20, 2005 by MrBlue42
	Makes no sense (Preview) I have been doing so much thinking and crying and thinking some more. I have been around all of this for so long. I have read everything there is to read. I have reread and said the prayers and slogans to myself so often. I have worked the steps, honestly and to the best of my ability alone and with a sponsor....	Jeannie	11	970	Jun 20, 2005 by lin0606
	still gone and no hope in sight (Preview) Any suggestions: Have been seperated for about 5 months from my qualifier who is my husband. I have made it clear that in order to get back together he would have to join AA and get a sponsor and be of service for about a year ooooooo yeah keep the same place of employment for over a year. He is living in a...	joeygirl	6	1046	Jun 20, 2005 by kb
	Relapse (Preview) I noticed the post below on Relapse. I have mixed feelings about it. My experience was with my husband's relapse after ten years of sobriety was this. [I felt He could find sobriety again if HE wanted it, but it would require him hitting another bottom. And it did.&nb...	wallsal55	5	962	Jun 20, 2005 by wallsal55
	Acting as If...and Quote for Today (Preview) I think I have forgotten how to "act as if". We have such glorious June weather here...and I well...have just gotten plain lazy, But enjoying that laziness--is a payoff : ) I feel I deserve the relaxed time after all the stress, but I swing to the extreme...	wallsal55	0	643	Jun 20, 2005 by wallsal55
	God Said NO (Preview) GOD SAID 'NO' (Think about this) I asked God to take away my habit. God said, No. It is not for me to take away, but for you to give it up. I asked God to make my handicapped child whole. God said, No. His spirit is whole, his body is only temporary I asked God to grant me patience. God said,...	kerry5	5	978	Jun 20, 2005 by Peggy7
	sara (Preview) hi sara.......if you click onyour original post, then scroll down, the shares are posted below yours :) jo	jo4	0	685	Jun 19, 2005 by jo4
	New here, need some friendly advice.... (Preview) Hi everyone, I really feel fed up today and i shall explain why.......... I have been married for nearly three years, and my husband has always liked a drink. We have been together for eight years and it he has always been this way. He can binge drink quite easily, gets very aggressive and argum...	Sara	2	952	Jun 19, 2005 by lin0606
	a little help with a dry drunk please????? (Preview) hi all, Well, my husband now has about 7 months of sobriety, and he is starting to act out the dry drunk stages. Some more angry then others, and all though i know what to do with myself during these times.....I was wondering what exactly is going on inside him that makes alcoholics act out in dry...	mastiff	13	1219	Jun 19, 2005 by cloud
	Surgery (Preview) Hi all - I'm having surgery on my neck on Fri to remove unwanted bone - then to re-hab for therapy on my legs. I welcome your prayers and send you my love and hugs - Dot	dot	8	862	Jun 19, 2005 by cloud
	To cloud (Preview) Hi cloud, Thanks for your responses to my posts, I really appreciate it!! I just wanted to let you know that I am not cathy, I am Linda (teddybear) There are so many people on this message board that it is easy to not identify people with their posting names. I hope that all is going well with you to...	teddybear	1	651	Jun 19, 2005 by cloud
	relapses---do they just get worse? (Preview) My A husband entered a 30 day inpatient facility and did "great" but came out and drank 2 days later. Started a semi program after and didn't drink for 2 weeks but drank one night but got back on board. 2 weeks later another "relapse". Stayed away for 1 week---admits he was drunk most...	mom to 2	11	1100	Jun 19, 2005 by tk47834
	Sara here, how do i read the views made? (Preview) Hi Guys, Thankyou for replying, but unfortunately i cannot seem to work out how to access the comments made, its driving me insane!!!!!!! Can someone please email me and let me know j.taylor3@btopenworld.com Thankyou..................	Sara	0	590	Jun 19, 2005 by Sara
	I am so angry (Preview) I am so angry tonight and don't know why. I posted earlier about expectations. I realize that I cannot impose my will on anyone else, especially an addict. But, I am still angry and wondering how he can be so stupid. How can he not see things as I do? Why doesn't he understand?&...	Powerless	4	807	Jun 19, 2005 by whitie
	I sent the note (Preview) I had posted on here about sending a note to my sister-in-law informing her that I had left her brother. I read the responses, talked to my therapist and prayed on it. I wanted to tell his family because I thought they should know. So I sent my closest sister-in-law a no...	megan	3	656	Jun 19, 2005 by megan
	Letter to the addict (Preview) I have been feeling so much anger, disappointment and resentment lately. I thought it was important to write this letter to my husband. I thought it may fit your situation as well. It's not well thought out because I was feeling very emotional when I wrote it. Dear (A...	Powerless	5	1252	Jun 19, 2005 by Powerless
	Daughter back in AA :) (Preview) Hello friends, Once again, thanks for the prayers so much! Daughter called today and I twisted her arm to come home to have some of her past due birthday cake and open her cards. She came home since her dad wasn't here. Gosh, I wish my hubby would go to alanon etc. Anyway, we had a nice visit. She ev...	cdb	3	862	Jun 18, 2005 by sanddie
	daughter (Preview) Husband stopped at her apartment. Neighbor has seen her coming and going. Out of our control now. She hasn't called us or her boyfriend. Could use continued prayers. For those of you who do not know. Daughter relapsed. Not sure what is going on. Time to take care of me :) cdb	cdb	12	1096	Jun 18, 2005 by cloud
	THE FOG (Preview) I was cleaning out my computer and came across something that I wrote several yrs ago. Thought I'd share.. The Fog.... The fog has taken you and enveloped the man I used to know. Where are you? How can I reach you? I wonder through the fog with you, never finding you, only remembering the m...	Christy	6	851	Jun 18, 2005 by cloud
	Amends to kerry5 (Preview) Hello kerry5 and all, I did make amends to you last night in chat and making amends is one great thing about the alanon program. I have been in a crisis with the relapse of my daughter. I should have had a sign on me that said: Look Out, Crazy Woman! LOL I know how hard it must be to be a new OP and...	cdb	3	636	Jun 18, 2005 by cloud
	Expectations (Preview) A light bulb finally weent off in my head. I reealized today just what everyone means when they say expectations. My husband and I took the oldrest son to the movies today and he was so high on pills that he couldn't stay awake. He snored loud enough to turn heads. I sent him to the car t...	Powerless	0	692	Jun 18, 2005 by Powerless
	host daze (Preview) Hi to all, I hope it's great all y'all's ways. The a.m. chat is becoming a less and less option for me. When I wake up - my java into chat is visually impaired. It takes about an hour for my eyes to open. Java does not support text enlarging. I have five fields of vision, so its takes a wh...	wille	2	579	Jun 18, 2005 by cdb
	Going in Circles for too long (Preview) I'm new. So Hello everyone! I've been with A for 40 years, so I'll give a brief synopsis. 16 years into our marriage, I had had enough. There were no drinkers in my family, so I thought my hubby's problems were deep-seated issues from his own family history and childhood. But, I had simply had enough an...	Sandyspen	4	1145	Jun 18, 2005 by Sandyspen
	Roundups and conventions (Preview) A post in another thread got me thinking about this. Have any of you ever been to a roundup? They are like big meetings, with both AA and Alanon. The ones I have been to have varied from just one day (usually a Saturday) to a whole weekend. In the course of a day there amy be five or six meetings where people ge...	lin0606	6	937	Jun 18, 2005 by DanaAngel
	Hurts so much (Preview) Hi, Well last night came and went and he did not go into detox. He called them on Monday and said they did not get back to him. He said if the detox wanted him badly enough they would have kept after him. He says they are supposed to reach out to him, so it is their fault and says he will not call them again. S...	Jeannie	19	1099	Jun 18, 2005 by mom to 2
	quotes to remember!! (Preview) In Life You can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life. hmm: Sometimes when you're angry, you have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give you the right to be cruel. This is so true!! You shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your l...	teddybear	1	595	Jun 17, 2005 by holdingon
	The Man in the glass (Preview) Here is a poem that my Dad said my Grandfather read to him frequently in his years growing up and my Grandfathers years in AA, fighting for sobriety. He said he has always told me to follow the girl in the mirror, and this is where he learned that from. I just wanted to share it with you all. &...	Jeannie	2	1360	Jun 17, 2005 by holdingon
	New here (Preview) My husband hasn't had drink for a month now, he was attending some meetings but hasn't in weeks. I am worried he will resort back to his old behavior and pattern of drinking if he doesn't continue with his meetings or counselling to work on his issues. I want to feel happy about this, but he has gone a month...	holdingon	13	1051	Jun 17, 2005 by holdingon
	Step One (Preview) I'm on step one..........I am powerlees over alcohol, my live has become unmangeable. Please tell me about your experience with step one.	mandy_loves_GOD	4	900	Jun 16, 2005 by mandy_loves_GOD
	Hi Everyone (Preview) Hi, I haven't posted lately, and haven't even had time to read. My daughter had her eigth grade prom this weekend,(she looked like an angel) and both her and my son are getting ready to graduate this weekend. One on Friday night and one on Monday night. I have been running around helping to get them r...	Jeannie	6	839	Jun 16, 2005 by mamasan
	abbyal (Preview) abbyal, Can you e-mail me again about the AA promises? I lost your e-mail jessage. Thanks, Nancy	nmike	0	694	Jun 16, 2005 by nmike
	Progress (Preview) Noticing progress in my self is really nice these days!! It is welcoming to actually be able to see the "light" and have humor rather than dispare!! Finding that the tense feeling in my body is flowing away is just great! This has not come easily but with working my program and be...	jj	2	837	Jun 16, 2005 by nmike
	Trying to use my steps (Preview) I woke up this morning and found $500.00 in my purse that wasn't there when I went to bed. Since then, I found out that the neighbor my husband sold his pick-up truck to last week gave him $1000.00 last night. My husband never mentioned this to me. My first reaction was to call my husba...	Powerless	0	739	Jun 16, 2005 by Powerless
	Not sure when enough is enough (Preview) I am disable due to MS and a below right knee amputation which I have had the last fifteen years. I was dignosed with a severe form of MS four years ago. I have been married to the same man for the last 13 years and togather with him for 15 years now. He is really a wonderful person who has a...	honeybunnydog	6	1110	Jun 16, 2005 by ArwynEvenstar
	I am finally back up and running! (Preview) Hi all, Our home computer crashed about 3 weeks ago and except with the occasional peek while at work I haven't been on this site. Nice to be able to type this at home. The other half says I get cranky when I don't have my puter time. (But I functioned okay without it als...	DanaAngel	1	853	Jun 16, 2005 by shimo
	Alternate Chair Monday a.m.'s (Preview) Hi everyone, I have decided to drop my name from the list as alternate chair for Monday morning meetings. The last few weeks I have been unable to fulfill my capacity as an alternate chair for various reasons. However, if I am in the room attending the meeting on days other...	shimo	0	584	Jun 16, 2005 by shimo
	Thank you (Preview) Thanks to all of you for replying. I've always been a head-strong person and that is one of my biggest downfalls. It has also always been very hard for me to ask for help on anything. ( My father was the same way.) During our first years of marriage, I learned how to do everything from plu...	tk47834	2	828	Jun 15, 2005 by tk47834
	answering a child's questions... (Preview) My 10 year old knows somethings up. He'll ask me "Why is daddy asleep so early" "Why can't we wake him" "Is it the alcohol he drinks?" Well, part of me wants to say all the wrong things, which would be wrong. Part of me wants to hide it, which would be wrong too. I f...	De Anna	5	1105	Jun 15, 2005 by abbyal
	Codependent Caring Running Amok/Characteristics (Preview) www.thisisawar.com/AddictionPartner.htm ; Codependence [The word 'amophous' in this piece means shapeless, unorganized, etc.] -- Edited by wallsal55 at 15:33, 20...	wallsal55	2	663	Jun 15, 2005 by agatha
	FRIENDS (Preview) Friends are something we are all in need of from time to time, but friends here relly make a difference!!!! So many times I have sat and wondered lately what the true meaning of a friend was???? I realize that a friend is someone you can turn to in any situation, with a problem, or a joke you want to share or&...	cloud	2	719	Jun 15, 2005 by cloud
	Chair Needed for 6/16 pm meeting (Preview) I will be out of town this Thursday (6/16) and unable to chair the Thursday night Step meeting. Step Four is the step we are on for this meeting. Thanking in advance the member who volunteers to step up and chair for me! Luv, Kis	kismetstrand	2	759	Jun 15, 2005 by mastiff
	Need support and encouragement or experience (Preview) Ok I am really trying to get the nerve up part of taking care of me. I want to start to ask for what I want. I want affection from my husband. Affection he may not want to give, but I believe he is waiting for me to assert myself and ask. He ended a 3 year affair 9 months ago with a woman who w...	holly123	5	875	Jun 15, 2005 by holly123
	made a decision (Preview) Hi, I posted here once a few weeks ago and have tried to convince myself that things have changed, which...not surprisingly...they have not. This past weekend was an eyeopener for me and I am making a decision. In 24 minutes I am leaving work, heading home..and I am going to lay t...	sno	3	588	Jun 15, 2005 by Powerless
	Need to talk to Jo4 :) (Preview) Hello Jo4, I know someone that needs a temporary sponsor. This person has learning disabilities and is a single parent with older son. This person is eager to learn and needs support. Please answer me in my private email here under cdb if you can help out. Thanks so much. cdb :)	cdb	1	734	Jun 14, 2005 by jo4
	Josh (Preview) Thoughts of healing and Hi to all, Thanks all for thinking of UK Josh. He is getting better and better! Totally off life support now, which is pretty awesome for a tbi (trauma brain injury) 10 year old. He can not remember some words as yet and thinks his leg is broken, as it is the part of...	wille	2	766	Jun 14, 2005 by Jeannie
	When enough is enough (Preview) Hi everyone, I went to my first family class with my A last week. He is required to take intensive outpatient therapy at this couseling center four nights a week two hours a night. One night a week is family night, and I did not go to the first three because he got the couselor at the rehab plac...	honeybunnydog	3	719	Jun 14, 2005 by Jeannie
	Temporary Sponsors (Preview) It would be really nice if there was a temporary sponsor list to help new comers. I was told to wait and listen, well I need help right away and so do many others. Knowing you are doing something is the begging of healing.	ItsmeTC	2	989	Jun 14, 2005 by holly123
	He got a job!!! (Preview) He got a job today and starts tomorrow. I am trying not to be negative and wonder how long he will keep the darn thing. At least it will get him out of the house each day and hopefully help us get caught up. Was offered a new position within the company I work for today and am seriously con...	Powerless	3	734	Jun 14, 2005 by Jeannie
	MY BOYFRIEND TURNED HUSBAND (Preview) MY BOYFRIEND TURNED HUSBAND In Aug of 99 I meet, Rick at one of my friends house. I was living alone because the person I moved down had left and I wasn’t dating anyone at the time. Rick had just gotten out of jail and was trying to get his life together. In the begin I really didn’t really notice on h...	nycbt	2	850	Jun 14, 2005 by nycbt
	Reaching out to his family (Preview) i am going to send a note to my husband's sister explaining to her that I have left her brother and the reason why - his active alcoholism. It just came to me yesterday while I was riding my bike. I feel they should know. Since their brother is killing himself and when he is dead they will say...	megan	3	865	Jun 14, 2005 by megan
	Things that help me when I am AFRAID (Preview) Which ....has been often in the 1st few years back in recovery ...here are some things that have helped me which I would like to share; Fear = F.alse E.vents A.ppearing R.eal Trying to stay in Just Today ... a day ( a minute) at a time The "Just for today " Bookmark REALLY helps me "Just for to...	fiona123	1	591	Jun 13, 2005 by De Anna
	To Realize (Preview) TO REALIZE > > > >To realize > >The value of a sister > >Ask someone > >Who doesn't have one. > > > >To realize > >The value of ten years: > >Ask a newly > >Divorced couple. > > > >To realize > >The value of four years: &g...	kerry5	3	888	Jun 13, 2005 by wille
	So happy to be back (Preview) Hi Everyone, I have not been able to post for a time, because my computer was out of order. My husband had it reformatted, and you can be sure that it was not important for him to keep my Al-Anon site. I was so upset, yet with the help of my HP I found it again. I am so happy about th...	teddybear	1	824	Jun 13, 2005 by cloud
	An Inspiration for today (Preview) Hi Everyone, Allowing yourself to be less than perfect allows you to accomplish great things in small ways. My HP, may I remove all of the pressures I overwhelming place on myself, and do what I can, when I can. Friday evening I was the guest speaker at an Al-Anon meeting, I felt...	teddybear	1	848	Jun 13, 2005 by cloud
	Jellinek Chart/Progression of Disease (Preview) This is the chart they handed me at a mental health facility (when I told them I was going crazy. They said "No, you are not, your husband has a drinking problem." Wish they'd given this paper out when I graduated high school ! Go to: www.dog...	wallsal55	0	6879	Jun 13, 2005 by wallsal55
	Merry Go Round Named Denial (Preview) A pamphlet available at alanon meetings, and at www.alanon.org is "Merry Go Round Named Denial." If you are isolated from meetings, etc. it can be found at www.bendfeldt.com/alcholism.htm (note spelling) Just type these in your address ba...	wallsal55	0	917	Jun 13, 2005 by wallsal55
	So Sorry message board friends... (Preview) Hello friends, I use to be so good at reading posts and replying. Since my situation with my parents' poor health and their moving to ND to be closer to me, I have been a mess with a routine! I haven't forgotten about you. I feel so bad I am not reading or replying. I even have 140 emails I have...	cdb	9	1084	Jun 13, 2005 by teddybear
	Asking for help (Preview) I am new in Alanon. I went to a few meetings and people gave me call lists and a few even gave me their numbers. I don't know what to do or say when I call. The meetings I went to I started to cry. My son just got back from treatment and has slipped a few times. I had a meltdown on Friday...	Finishgal	7	1024	Jun 12, 2005 by nikkilou
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