Al-Anon Family Group - Al-Anon Family Group

kissers · kissers

Some of you know I walked off my job in August because my manager couldn't keep his hands to himself. He wound up punching me and I reported him to HR. They told me I would have no choice but to report to him. I refused to go back to work under him. I filed for unemployment and was denied. They said the laws were...

sandy · sandy

Merry Christmas everyone. I just like to say thank you to all that have responded to my post when I've been very sad or angry. Your responses have been so, so helpful to me. Sometimes I feel bad because I don't respond to the post but I haven't gotten myself together as of yet so giving words of enc...

mollyann · mollyann

This year, for the first time since I can remember, my finances are not in a mess during Christmas. My Christmas present to myself was to pay off my credit card. It put me in a position where I have limited money to spend on presents, and I'm so glad I did it! Now my only two big bills are my mortg...

notsonew1111 · notsonew1111

my a is making me so mad today. everyday he wants to go over to his moms. all the time. yesterday we went to get christmas stuff and who had to come along? his mom. we rented a bunch of movies to watch together and what did he do? he said we would spend the night watching movies with her because his sister is goi...

Jennifer · Jennifer

Here I am on a new day, grateful to be here. As I was replying to a post here I heard my front door open, and guess who came home thinking I would be gone for the most of the morning and afternoon. He had said he would call before coming by, but it is a small thing so I will let it go. He didn't want to stay because it...

Jennifer · Jennifer

Hello Everyone, My name is Jennifer. I'm here tonight doing my best to take care of myself. I'm sitting here alternately feeling sorry for myself, guilty and just plain sad. This year has been unbelievably painful. I lost a dog, a cat, and my blinders that got me through life. My husband is an alcohol...

TLC2 · TLC2

I know how hard this time of year can be for some of us. I am praying for a peaceful, serene Holiday for everybody, with, without our A's, whatever is best for each and every one of you. For me, that means him staying away from the bottle for the first time since I've known him at Christmas time. (so far, so go...

AlaMom · AlaMom

to each and everyone in the MIP family. I hope that during this season each of you can find some peace in your lives even if only for one day. Remember during this busy time to take the time to take care of yourselves - for you are the most important thing. Have a blessed one everyone....

Dolphin123 · Dolphin123

Hello my roomies, I know I am anxious for the Holidays to be over with, but I still want to wish you all a safe and happy holiday! Much Love.

leo · leo

Well I guess just when you think everything starts to fall into place you get hit by a truck and brought back to reality. Today my car has not been working and has a flat battery. My A came home from work with the sarcastic look on the face and wanting to know where the keys were so he coul...

maresie · maresie

My younger sister has been an alcoholic since she was 16. She is now 49 and that is a lot of years with alcoholic thinking. Nevertheless I constantly personalize her behavior and want to change her and obsess about being triggered by her. As she lives at some distance our contact is intermit...

just me · just me

I thought this holiday would be so special. I have bee looking forward to it all month. My company arrives today and I am a mess! My daughter came home this morning from her dad's so I could put different pants on her before she went to preschool. Her dad has no clue how to...

confused · confused

i have a million things going on in my head and realize that i do not even know where to begin. the anger i thought wasn't there is rearing it's very ugly head. the ups and downs of my emotions are going to drive me insane. i thought i saw a light at the end of the tunnel, at least a glimmer but instead was swallo...

Dolphin123 · Dolphin123

Hello all, I am so looking forward to Monday morning. The holiday will be over and the stress can calm down. I know one day at a time. My "A" just called to tell me that I ruined our camcorder, "So know we have a $700 piece of junk!" in his words. I feel bad, but it was an accident. I was trying to charge it an...

Cilla · Cilla

I've not had the opportunity to post often and have mostly replied to other forums. Today I've been granted some down time and although the holiday stress is there, getting a well needed break from the hustle and bustle of combining my life (ie, family, church, al-anon, work, health issues; yo...

Cyn · Cyn

About a month ago - I sat in a depressed state for days on end wishing I werent alive so I wouldnt feel the pain of leaving the love of my life. I had no desire, no ability to see past that minute, no desire to eat. I dreaded the thought of Christmas - of Christmas shopping and having to do i...

angel123 · angel123

Click the attatchment for reading from the forum,on "change "1993

gardengal · gardengal

A CHECK LIST FOR EVALUATING "OUR" MATURITY The difficulties of coping with alcoholism in another are much more effectively met when we ourselves reflect attitudes of mature adults. A mature adult is one who....... 1. Does not automatically resent criticism, realizing that it may cont...

angel123 · angel123

Sometimes there are others that are unable to go to meetings or recieve Alanon lit thought I would post a storie from the Forum.Attachment good reading,I felt myself from it.sharing something good.love Angel

Diva · Diva

I have a dear friend, Maria, whom I do love with all my heart. Maria has no family save one cousin who lives here in San Antonio, so when my husband and I decided to call San Antonio home, Maria sold her home in Albuquerque and followed soon after. Her reasoning was because we and her cousin are here and she w...

whitie · whitie

I've shared before that I work in an Assisted Living Center and that one of our residents was a man in his 50 with multiple health problems. He has the most amazing attitude that always humbles me. He is so positive through all his illnesses. He could not longer afford to live in our facility and moved t...

angel123 · angel123

another great Slogan love Sharon/angel

whitie · whitie

I was at the doctor yesterday and was diagnosed with Essential Tremors. The shaking is more prevelent when taking decongestents like I've been taking for my sinus', or from caffeine or stress. The doctor said that the tremors are proven to settle down some when you consume alcohol! All I could do was l...

angel123 · angel123

1988 The Forum put together each slogan to repercent a flower,It was done once more in 1990 at a convention that I know of.I have collected a few.Do not have all for I donated some of my forum books to my home group,given to members in time of need or wanting them.Thought you may enjoy.Attachment is the re...

just me · just me

This is my first time posting. My ex husband is one of my current A's. I have a family full of them! He is the father of my 4 yr old daughter. Therefore I have to deal with him even though we are divorced. To give you a little background on our situation...he filed fo...

angelinme908 · angelinme908

After my f2f meeting, I didn't want to go and sit home alone so I decided to go out to the bar and socialize. I figured it would be safe - my ex g/f has a class on Wed. and is busy with work so shouldn't be out. I was wrong!!!! I go in and I see her with the ex g/f before me. They are with a g...

nycbt · nycbt

My husband has too much time on his hands. He has not been working in a while maybe only on a tue or sat and the rest of the time he has been home. So therefore he has been home all day long. I can't prove it however I know that in the past he has gotten into alot of troblue. Last night when I came down into the hallw...

UncleLou · UncleLou

Went to my homegroup AA meeting last night and saw a young face I thought I recognized. Went up to him after the meeting and asked "didn't I give you a ride after a meeting a few years ago?" Yup same kid, he remembered me. The meeting was a year and a half ago, the kid (early 20's) had just gotten out of a...

Kim · Kim

Well, here I am again. Last night my A decided it was time for him to make "amends" with my father and he went to see him. Aplogized for everything and took the blame for our separation...yada, yada yada....I was not at all in support of this I didnot feel that he was in the right place to do so....

toto12 · toto12

Hi John, Can you help? I wanted to register on the acoa site board room, but it won't take me because it says that my email address is already in use. I used my email address for this site, naturally. I only have one email. What do I do to be in both rooms with one email address? And, w...

Dolphin123 · Dolphin123

Hi Roomies Julie (browneyes) Hey! i just saw your note asking how some of us were. I appreciate your thoughts! I have been so busy it is crazy, but I am enjoying it so much.For the first time in years I have a social life, lol and I am having a hard time keeping up with it. I have been going to my me...

abbyal · abbyal

Hello John , I have some excerpts fromthe FORUM , THEY ARE ON USING THE TRADITIONS IN OUR HOMES AND PERSONAL LIVES. IS IT POSSIBLE TO PUT THEM ON THE BOARD , ONE AT A TIME? THEY ARE REALLY QUITE INTERESTING. lOUISE

confused · confused

This is just so unfair, just when I think I am doing ok I fall back intoa pit. I went to see my A in the hospital yesterday to meet with the Dr. and the care coordinator. I thought it went ok but apparrently I was wrong. They have diagnosed him Bipolar and are starting him on Lithium and have increased the Zolo...

chrissy · chrissy

hi guys, i just wanted to say thank you for all your love & support. i couldn't have gotten through this with out you & my hp. i have made some really great friends here. & i just wanted to share. chuck has been doing wonderful my family is great. amanda's attitude has changed back to my...

Cyn · Cyn

I had a friend rip into me tonight about my ex. He got mad at me because his sister informed him (she is a very good friend of mine as well) that I called Child Protective Services on my ex when I found out he was addicted to painkillers and couldnt take care of his 5 year old son. Now this friend i...

angel123 · angel123

hope you enjoy the attachment love Sharon/angel

Marian2 · Marian2

I am new to this board, but not alcoholism/addiction, and have been on the 'fringes' of Alanon for many years. I am now finally getting serious about really working the program, but realize I have a long way to go. My husband of 30 years was an alcoholic until his death (of course alcohol related) 18 year...

angel123 · angel123

Hope you enjoy the attachment love Sharon/angel

Picowitch · Picowitch

Well boy am I feeling guilty now. My A and I have been living apart for about 3 months or more, cos I needed to get off the rollercoaster. He has now been sober 2 months, and I'm wrestling with my guilt cos twice in the past 2 weeks I've falsely accused him of drinking. I am only just starting t...

angel123 · angel123

Easy does it is a slogan I often need to put in effect in my life,Click the attachment to read...Forum 1988 Love Sharon/angel

chris52 · chris52

Happy Christmas to each and every one of you. The best thing that happened for me this year was finding this Alanon site and giving me the privilege of meeting up with you fantastic people. You've all given me hope and encouragement and your many words of wisdom have led me from the path of misery to one of...

nycbt · nycbt

I would like to say happy xmas and new years to everyone. I am going to be off for a whole week next week for those who will be worrying where I am.

twinmom2 · twinmom2

Hello Group, I just wanted to wish all of you a Merry Christmas and a Happy Holidays. I'll be off for a week with my boys having fun. I pray that all of us have a blessed and safe holiday. This website and all of you have really enriched my life and gave me a safe Haven of comfort to expre...

John · John

Hi everyone, For two days now, the guys at Miracles In Progress Recovery House have received a great number of xmas cards from you fine folks here at MIP 12 Step Forums! If you could see their faces light up, the smiles cross their lips, as they eagerly rip open and read each card...

angel123 · angel123

From the forum,A slogan

rosie light shines · rosie light shines

You are reading from the book Today's Gift </OA_HTML/ibeCCtpItmDspRte.jsp?item=2121>. I came to see the damage that was done and the treasures that prevail. --Adrienne Rich It takes great courage to face ourselves--to look honestly and fearlessly at our behavior, especially i...

Rebecca · Rebecca

well..... im here again. this computer seems like my only friend at the moment. the only one who doesnt keep asking me questions.... my "A" is at home with his parents for the moment. he doesnt seem happy to be in such a "confined location". im living about an hours drive away.... and he rang earli...

LauraI · LauraI

Hello, I have started to write this four times now, but I can't seem to finish it. I don't even know what I am trying to say. I have been reading your posts now for a few weeks and I am trying to decide if this is for me. I can't say for sure if there is alcoholism in my family. I feel like both my parents have sub...

alanajune · alanajune

Hi everyone. So I was haveing a wonderful day and was SO impressed with myself because this is one of the FIRST days I got through without speading the ENTIRE day wondering why he wasn't calling, or wondering what he was doing, or wondering if/what he was thinking of me/ playing our most recent conver...

JulieLynn · JulieLynn

My husband and I have been seperated now for 6 weeks and I have been having the time of my life. I got married the first time around at a very young age and had kids young and then got involved with my current husband so I haven't really ever "lived". Here's the thing, my husband and I have agree...

angel123 · angel123

I have collected readings from the forum,and thought i would share a few Hope you enjoy,or find helpful love Sharon/angel

Cyn · Cyn

You all are fantastic - thanks for all the hugs and congratulations! I am so excited and really feel loved by you all. My ex was the first one to encourage me to go for this new business and the new job - knowing I would be good for it and giving me the courage to go for it. Now I have both - I h...

leo · leo

Hi guys, Today I want to thank each and everyone of you for all your support since I came to the board. I now have faith in a higher power thanks to MIP. I had a chest x-ray a week ago and I was stressing that I had lung cancer as my Dad died of it at age 47 which I am now. Before...

nycbt · nycbt

I am still having trouble getting into the chat room. sometimes i get in which seems to be rare now.

-- Edited by nycbt at 16:08, 2005-12-21

Cyn · Cyn

I got the job...in tears - my life just started!!!

captcodee · captcodee

Yesterday I responded to a post from Marmare about "when is it my time?" It seems that Marmare and i both had the same feelings yesterday, and as I read the replies, so did many others. But Powerless suggested we grab our purse, and get the heck out of the house and do something for ourselves...r...

Earthgirl · Earthgirl

Hello All, I am brand new to the forum but not brand new to the disease of Alcoholism. My father was an alcoholic and was very abusive. I left home at 14 and never went back. I have been in many relationships through the years, some with Alcoholics and some with non-addicts. They always end the same way....

angel123 · angel123

This is from the forum,called meeting in my pocket.

marmare · marmare

My A came home last night from bowling and they had a gift exchange, guess what he got? Yep alcohol. 5 little airplane bottles, of course he and two team mates drank them at the bowling alley. He said "I didn't drink enough to even feel guilty.' Am I wrong to think that this is ju...

rosie light shines · rosie light shines

Faith is the bird that sings when the dawn is still dark. ---Rabindranath Tagore There may be many things in our lives that seem unsure or doubtful. Whatever our hope or personal need today, we are not given the knowledge that tells us how things will turn out. In the predawn darkness we don't know h...

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	Please say a prayer for my children (Preview) Some of you know I walked off my job in August because my manager couldn't keep his hands to himself. He wound up punching me and I reported him to HR. They told me I would have no choice but to report to him. I refused to go back to work under him. I filed for unemployment and was denied. They said the laws were...	kissers	5	507	Dec 24, 2005 by Jeannie
	A Merry Christmas & thank you to all. (Preview) Merry Christmas everyone. I just like to say thank you to all that have responded to my post when I've been very sad or angry. Your responses have been so, so helpful to me. Sometimes I feel bad because I don't respond to the post but I haven't gotten myself together as of yet so giving words of enc...	sandy	0	480	Dec 24, 2005 by sandy
	Taking Care of Finances During the Holidays (Preview) This year, for the first time since I can remember, my finances are not in a mess during Christmas. My Christmas present to myself was to pay off my credit card. It put me in a position where I have limited money to spend on presents, and I'm so glad I did it! Now my only two big bills are my mortg...	mollyann	2	477	Dec 23, 2005 by BlueCloud
	annoyed (Preview) my a is making me so mad today. everyday he wants to go over to his moms. all the time. yesterday we went to get christmas stuff and who had to come along? his mom. we rented a bunch of movies to watch together and what did he do? he said we would spend the night watching movies with her because his sister is goi...	notsonew1111	3	463	Dec 23, 2005 by gknee
	A new day (Preview) Here I am on a new day, grateful to be here. As I was replying to a post here I heard my front door open, and guess who came home thinking I would be gone for the most of the morning and afternoon. He had said he would call before coming by, but it is a small thing so I will let it go. He didn't want to stay because it...	Jennifer	3	540	Dec 23, 2005 by Jennifer
	New & Sad (Preview) Hello Everyone, My name is Jennifer. I'm here tonight doing my best to take care of myself. I'm sitting here alternately feeling sorry for myself, guilty and just plain sad. This year has been unbelievably painful. I lost a dog, a cat, and my blinders that got me through life. My husband is an alcohol...	Jennifer	8	661	Dec 23, 2005 by Jennifer
	Hard time of year for some (Preview) I know how hard this time of year can be for some of us. I am praying for a peaceful, serene Holiday for everybody, with, without our A's, whatever is best for each and every one of you. For me, that means him staying away from the bottle for the first time since I've known him at Christmas time. (so far, so go...	TLC2	4	483	Dec 23, 2005 by Joycie
	Merry Christmas (Preview) to each and everyone in the MIP family. I hope that during this season each of you can find some peace in your lives even if only for one day. Remember during this busy time to take the time to take care of yourselves - for you are the most important thing. Have a blessed one everyone....	AlaMom	3	435	Dec 23, 2005 by Karilynn
	Happy Holidays All! (Preview) Hello my roomies, I know I am anxious for the Holidays to be over with, but I still want to wish you all a safe and happy holiday! Much Love.	Dolphin123	2	438	Dec 23, 2005 by Karilynn
	had to happen (Preview) Well I guess just when you think everything starts to fall into place you get hit by a truck and brought back to reality. Today my car has not been working and has a flat battery. My A came home from work with the sarcastic look on the face and wanting to know where the keys were so he coul...	leo	10	535	Dec 23, 2005 by TLC2
	dealing with denial (Preview) My younger sister has been an alcoholic since she was 16. She is now 49 and that is a lot of years with alcoholic thinking. Nevertheless I constantly personalize her behavior and want to change her and obsess about being triggered by her. As she lives at some distance our contact is intermit...	maresie	5	653	Dec 23, 2005 by maresie
	Holiday expectations (Preview) I thought this holiday would be so special. I have bee looking forward to it all month. My company arrives today and I am a mess! My daughter came home this morning from her dad's so I could put different pants on her before she went to preschool. Her dad has no clue how to...	just me	6	454	Dec 23, 2005 by just me
	ok, i was wrong, i am angry (Preview) i have a million things going on in my head and realize that i do not even know where to begin. the anger i thought wasn't there is rearing it's very ugly head. the ups and downs of my emotions are going to drive me insane. i thought i saw a light at the end of the tunnel, at least a glimmer but instead was swallo...	confused	6	617	Dec 23, 2005 by maresie
	Is it the 26th yet? (Preview) Hello all, I am so looking forward to Monday morning. The holiday will be over and the stress can calm down. I know one day at a time. My "A" just called to tell me that I ruined our camcorder, "So know we have a $700 piece of junk!" in his words. I feel bad, but it was an accident. I was trying to charge it an...	Dolphin123	1	429	Dec 23, 2005 by maresie
	Honesty (Preview) I've not had the opportunity to post often and have mostly replied to other forums. Today I've been granted some down time and although the holiday stress is there, getting a well needed break from the hustle and bustle of combining my life (ie, family, church, al-anon, work, health issues; yo...	Cilla	1	467	Dec 23, 2005 by maresie
	Holiday Thanks (Preview) About a month ago - I sat in a depressed state for days on end wishing I werent alive so I wouldnt feel the pain of leaving the love of my life. I had no desire, no ability to see past that minute, no desire to eat. I dreaded the thought of Christmas - of Christmas shopping and having to do i...	Cyn	3	432	Dec 23, 2005 by Dolphin123
	change (Preview) Click the attatchment for reading from the forum,on "change "1993	angel123	2	443	Dec 23, 2005 by notsonew1111
	EVALUATING "OUR" MATURITY (Preview) A CHECK LIST FOR EVALUATING "OUR" MATURITY The difficulties of coping with alcoholism in another are much more effectively met when we ourselves reflect attitudes of mature adults. A mature adult is one who....... 1. Does not automatically resent criticism, realizing that it may cont...	gardengal	1	2174	Dec 23, 2005 by Dolphin123
	A Blessing Returned (Preview) Sometimes there are others that are unable to go to meetings or recieve Alanon lit thought I would post a storie from the Forum.Attachment good reading,I felt myself from it.sharing something good.love Angel	angel123	0	470	Dec 23, 2005 by angel123
	A bit off the subject, but I need opinions. (Preview) I have a dear friend, Maria, whom I do love with all my heart. Maria has no family save one cousin who lives here in San Antonio, so when my husband and I decided to call San Antonio home, Maria sold her home in Albuquerque and followed soon after. Her reasoning was because we and her cousin are here and she w...	Diva	12	630	Dec 23, 2005 by mebjk
	NOT feeling sorry for myself today (Preview) I've shared before that I work in an Assisted Living Center and that one of our residents was a man in his 50 with multiple health problems. He has the most amazing attitude that always humbles me. He is so positive through all his illnesses. He could not longer afford to live in our facility and moved t...	whitie	1	435	Dec 23, 2005 by angelinme908
	THINK (Preview) another great Slogan love Sharon/angel	angel123	3	437	Dec 22, 2005 by BlueCloud
	Isn't is ironic? (Preview) I was at the doctor yesterday and was diagnosed with Essential Tremors. The shaking is more prevelent when taking decongestents like I've been taking for my sinus', or from caffeine or stress. The doctor said that the tremors are proven to settle down some when you consume alcohol! All I could do was l...	whitie	3	459	Dec 22, 2005 by whitie
	Serenity Prayer (Preview) 1988 The Forum put together each slogan to repercent a flower,It was done once more in 1990 at a convention that I know of.I have collected a few.Do not have all for I donated some of my forum books to my home group,given to members in time of need or wanting them.Thought you may enjoy.Attachment is the re...	angel123	1	444	Dec 22, 2005 by Faith73
	Detaching with love (Preview) This is my first time posting. My ex husband is one of my current A's. I have a family full of them! He is the father of my 4 yr old daughter. Therefore I have to deal with him even though we are divorced. To give you a little background on our situation...he filed fo...	just me	7	533	Dec 22, 2005 by leo
	Help - I can't do it anymore (Preview) After my f2f meeting, I didn't want to go and sit home alone so I decided to go out to the bar and socialize. I figured it would be safe - my ex g/f has a class on Wed. and is busy with work so shouldn't be out. I was wrong!!!! I go in and I see her with the ex g/f before me. They are with a g...	angelinme908	8	754	Dec 22, 2005 by angelinme908
	too much time (Preview) My husband has too much time on his hands. He has not been working in a while maybe only on a tue or sat and the rest of the time he has been home. So therefore he has been home all day long. I can't prove it however I know that in the past he has gotten into alot of troblue. Last night when I came down into the hallw...	nycbt	3	439	Dec 22, 2005 by leo
	Joy to share (Preview) Went to my homegroup AA meeting last night and saw a young face I thought I recognized. Went up to him after the meeting and asked "didn't I give you a ride after a meeting a few years ago?" Yup same kid, he remembered me. The meeting was a year and a half ago, the kid (early 20's) had just gotten out of a...	UncleLou	9	528	Dec 22, 2005 by leo
	merry freakin christmas (Preview) Well, here I am again. Last night my A decided it was time for him to make "amends" with my father and he went to see him. Aplogized for everything and took the blame for our separation...yada, yada yada....I was not at all in support of this I didnot feel that he was in the right place to do so....	Kim	8	570	Dec 22, 2005 by Flora123
	also for oz, John (Preview) Hi John, Can you help? I wanted to register on the acoa site board room, but it won't take me because it says that my email address is already in use. I used my email address for this site, naturally. I only have one email. What do I do to be in both rooms with one email address? And, w...	toto12	0	445	Dec 22, 2005 by toto12
	Checking In! (Preview) Hi Roomies Julie (browneyes) Hey! i just saw your note asking how some of us were. I appreciate your thoughts! I have been so busy it is crazy, but I am enjoying it so much.For the first time in years I have a social life, lol and I am having a hard time keeping up with it. I have been going to my me...	Dolphin123	3	425	Dec 22, 2005 by twinmom2
	for John (Preview) Hello John , I have some excerpts fromthe FORUM , THEY ARE ON USING THE TRADITIONS IN OUR HOMES AND PERSONAL LIVES. IS IT POSSIBLE TO PUT THEM ON THE BOARD , ONE AT A TIME? THEY ARE REALLY QUITE INTERESTING. lOUISE	abbyal	0	483	Dec 22, 2005 by abbyal
	venting and lost in confusion (Preview) This is just so unfair, just when I think I am doing ok I fall back intoa pit. I went to see my A in the hospital yesterday to meet with the Dr. and the care coordinator. I thought it went ok but apparrently I was wrong. They have diagnosed him Bipolar and are starting him on Lithium and have increased the Zolo...	confused	6	482	Dec 22, 2005 by KathyS
	thank you (Preview) hi guys, i just wanted to say thank you for all your love & support. i couldn't have gotten through this with out you & my hp. i have made some really great friends here. & i just wanted to share. chuck has been doing wonderful my family is great. amanda's attitude has changed back to my...	chrissy	8	430	Dec 22, 2005 by megan
	Annoyed (Preview) I had a friend rip into me tonight about my ex. He got mad at me because his sister informed him (she is a very good friend of mine as well) that I called Child Protective Services on my ex when I found out he was addicted to painkillers and couldnt take care of his 5 year old son. Now this friend i...	Cyn	3	439	Dec 22, 2005 by KathyS
	One Day at a Time (Preview) hope you enjoy the attachment love Sharon/angel	angel123	1	402	Dec 22, 2005 by Dolphin123
	Need Help with a Decision (Preview) I am new to this board, but not alcoholism/addiction, and have been on the 'fringes' of Alanon for many years. I am now finally getting serious about really working the program, but realize I have a long way to go. My husband of 30 years was an alcoholic until his death (of course alcohol related) 18 year...	Marian2	8	543	Dec 22, 2005 by maresie
	listen and Learn (Preview) Hope you enjoy the attachment love Sharon/angel	angel123	1	463	Dec 22, 2005 by Dolphin123
	Feeling Guilty (Preview) Well boy am I feeling guilty now. My A and I have been living apart for about 3 months or more, cos I needed to get off the rollercoaster. He has now been sober 2 months, and I'm wrestling with my guilt cos twice in the past 2 weeks I've falsely accused him of drinking. I am only just starting t...	Picowitch	7	482	Dec 22, 2005 by marmare
	Easy Does it (Preview) Easy does it is a slogan I often need to put in effect in my life,Click the attachment to read...Forum 1988 Love Sharon/angel	angel123	2	443	Dec 22, 2005 by Marian2
	Christmas Greetings (Preview) Happy Christmas to each and every one of you. The best thing that happened for me this year was finding this Alanon site and giving me the privilege of meeting up with you fantastic people. You've all given me hope and encouragement and your many words of wisdom have led me from the path of misery to one of...	chris52	3	462	Dec 22, 2005 by Karilynn
	merry xmas (Preview) I would like to say happy xmas and new years to everyone. I am going to be off for a whole week next week for those who will be worrying where I am.	nycbt	6	396	Dec 22, 2005 by Karilynn
	Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays (Preview) Hello Group, I just wanted to wish all of you a Merry Christmas and a Happy Holidays. I'll be off for a week with my boys having fun. I pray that all of us have a blessed and safe holiday. This website and all of you have really enriched my life and gave me a safe Haven of comfort to expre...	twinmom2	3	405	Dec 22, 2005 by Karilynn
	Christmas Smile Abound! (Preview) Hi everyone, For two days now, the guys at Miracles In Progress Recovery House have received a great number of xmas cards from you fine folks here at MIP 12 Step Forums! If you could see their faces light up, the smiles cross their lips, as they eagerly rip open and read each card...	John	4	645	Dec 21, 2005 by whitie
	Let Go let God (Preview) From the forum,A slogan	angel123	2	442	Dec 21, 2005 by whitie
	making friends with step 4 (Preview) **You are reading from the book Today's Gift </OA_HTML/ibeCCtpItmDspRte.jsp?item=2121>. I came to see the damage that was done and the treasures that prevail. --Adrienne Rich** It takes great courage to face ourselves--to look honestly and fearlessly at our behavior, especially i...	rosie light shines	1	535	Dec 21, 2005 by cedarpines
	Update on my situation...... (Preview) well..... im here again. this computer seems like my only friend at the moment. the only one who doesnt keep asking me questions.... my "A" is at home with his parents for the moment. he doesnt seem happy to be in such a "confined location". im living about an hours drive away.... and he rang earli...	Rebecca	5	560	Dec 21, 2005 by maresie
	new (Preview) Hello, I have started to write this four times now, but I can't seem to finish it. I don't even know what I am trying to say. I have been reading your posts now for a few weeks and I am trying to decide if this is for me. I can't say for sure if there is alcoholism in my family. I feel like both my parents have sub...	LauraI	13	544	Dec 21, 2005 by maresie
	I hate fear. (Preview) Hi everyone. So I was haveing a wonderful day and was SO impressed with myself because this is one of the FIRST days I got through without speading the ENTIRE day wondering why he wasn't calling, or wondering what he was doing, or wondering if/what he was thinking of me/ playing our most recent conver...	alanajune	4	457	Dec 21, 2005 by maresie
	I don't know what to think of this (Preview) My husband and I have been seperated now for 6 weeks and I have been having the time of my life. I got married the first time around at a very young age and had kids young and then got involved with my current husband so I haven't really ever "lived". Here's the thing, my husband and I have agree...	JulieLynn	4	577	Dec 21, 2005 by maresie
	First things first (Preview) I have collected readings from the forum,and thought i would share a few Hope you enjoy,or find helpful love Sharon/angel	angel123	2	428	Dec 21, 2005 by angel123
	Thank you!! (Preview) You all are fantastic - thanks for all the hugs and congratulations! I am so excited and really feel loved by you all. My ex was the first one to encourage me to go for this new business and the new job - knowing I would be good for it and giving me the courage to go for it. Now I have both - I h...	Cyn	8	523	Dec 21, 2005 by angelinme908
	merry xmas (Preview) Hi guys, Today I want to thank each and everyone of you for all your support since I came to the board. I now have faith in a higher power thanks to MIP. I had a chest x-ray a week ago and I was stressing that I had lung cancer as my Dad died of it at age 47 which I am now. Before...	leo	6	476	Dec 21, 2005 by sandie123
	still having trouble (Preview) I am still having trouble getting into the chat room. sometimes i get in which seems to be rare now. -- Edited by nycbt at 16:08, 2005-12-21	nycbt	0	391	Dec 21, 2005 by nycbt
	I GOT THE JOB (Preview) I got the job...in tears - my life just started!!!	Cyn	21	502	Dec 21, 2005 by twinmom2
	Thank you Powerless and Marmare (Preview) Yesterday I responded to a post from Marmare about "when is it my time?" It seems that Marmare and i both had the same feelings yesterday, and as I read the replies, so did many others. But Powerless suggested we grab our purse, and get the heck out of the house and do something for ourselves...r...	captcodee	6	552	Dec 21, 2005 by notsonew1111
	Trust Issues (Preview) Hello All, I am brand new to the forum but not brand new to the disease of Alcoholism. My father was an alcoholic and was very abusive. I left home at 14 and never went back. I have been in many relationships through the years, some with Alcoholics and some with non-addicts. They always end the same way....	Earthgirl	9	663	Dec 21, 2005 by nycbt
	From Forum (Preview) This is from the forum,called meeting in my pocket.	angel123	1	392	Dec 21, 2005 by nycbt
	When is it my time? (Preview) My A came home last night from bowling and they had a gift exchange, guess what he got? Yep alcohol. 5 little airplane bottles, of course he and two team mates drank them at the bowling alley. He said "I didn't drink enough to even feel guilty.' Am I wrong to think that this is ju...	marmare	8	699	Dec 21, 2005 by dogscribe
	i need a microscope to see my faith (Preview) *Faith is the bird that sings when the dawn is still dark. ---Rabindranath Tagore* There may be many things in our lives that seem unsure or doubtful. Whatever our hope or personal need today, we are not given the knowledge that tells us how things will turn out. In the predawn darkness we don't know h...	rosie light shines	3	685	Dec 21, 2005 by leo
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