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Post Info TOPIC: expectations & fear of tomorrow


~*Service Worker*~

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expectations & fear of tomorrow


I have to admit that I am somewhat anxious about my future. The program tells me to not project & live one day at a time. I need to remember that in my case I am a little fearful of the future. I have mentioned before that my AH is going through cancer but it is hopeful because he is getting his kidney removed. It will be for sure on November 1st. I am praying for strength for both of us at this time. I even feel some peace & I only really expect the best. It just seems that the longer we wait, the harder it gets. I am not a very patient person. I have a lot of anxiety but  I can still see the light at the end of the tunnel. Sometimes I am more worried about me than him.  I guess I will just have to use my tools & especially self-care & reaching out to others. I might actually try to get out of myself & help others. I want a smooth transition from the surgery to recovery. He is going to be fine. I hope that I can be there for him. I am one of those people who is almost constantly on the go. I do have time for me. I just can't really stay home sometimes. I guess that is something I have to work on.

 

 



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Hoot Nanny


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(((HUGS))) I pray that your husband continues to heal. Glad you are practicing self care. Sending you love, light and blessings.

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~*Service Worker*~

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I too am sending you wishes for your husbands complete recovery and for you to have the strength,

wisdom and peace to stay strong for both you and husband. Glad you reached out HN! {{HUGS}}

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Debbie



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{{{Hoot Nanny}}} Sending light, love, and prayers, to you and your husband.

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Lyne



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Prayers for the health of both of you; continued self care for you and a successful surgery and recovery for your husband. ((hugs)))



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