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DM2021


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Todays reading points out how our most "negative thoughts" seem like reality/truth/prophecy. 

Accepting that "todays choices" (hence living One-Day-At-A-Time) and trusting our future to

our HP is what will help us grow from that negativity we may be harboring on a daily basis.

Reminder:  "Today I will place the future in my Higher Powers hands."  "I trust that by turn-

ing it over, it can be used for my good."

Quote:  "This time, like all times, is a very good one, if we but know what to do with it." ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

Learning to trust and placing my future in my HPs hands has made such a huge difference in my life. 

I spend so much less time worrying and trying to control compared to where I was several years ago. 

So grateful to Al-Anon/HP!!

Have you found that placing your worries about the future in your HPs hands has helped you as welll?

TGIF MIP Family!!



-- Edited by DM2021 on Friday 16th of September 2022 01:40:52 AM

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Lyne


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Thank you Debbie for your service and ESH. Prior to program, the majority of my life was spent in pain, misery, and negativity. It was just awful and I didn't have a clue how to change a thing. Alanon has taught me many lessons for having a much improved life--I'm not stuck in negativity anymore, however I do visit there now and then for a brief visit! Many tools allow me to move along, and give myself a shove in a different direction: Let go and let God, Live and let live, How important is it, Let go or be dragged, etc. :)

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Lyne
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Thanks Debbie and Lyne. Gosh yes how much time have I spent imagining the worst possible scenario and then obsessively thinking it will come to pass? When I remember to turn it over, it helps so much. And this is exactly what I needed to read right now because I had a minor run-in with an unpleasant neighbour today and have been obsessively thinking up all of the terrible things that I have decided will result from it. So I am turning it over and feeling relief right now as I type

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Thank you Debbie for your service and all the shares. I started cleaning at 7:00 a.m. and three hours later I asked myself why I need to spring clean every week. I realized the habit was passed on by my grandmother and mother...you know "cleanliness is next to Godliness "... Then I realized I need to let go of old ideas! I have to stop worrying so much about keeping my environment in perfect order. There are other ways I can strengthen my relationship with my HP besides cleaning (lol). Have a wonderful day.

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