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hersh


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((((Everyone)))


After being woken up lastnight by drunk AH and listening to his arrogance and hate words (I sat up but then just went to bed), I woke up this morning and told him goodbye when I left.  I asked him if he remembered what happened lastnight.  He said, "no, was I messing with you or were you messing with me??"!!!  I said calmly, you are sick, I love you, but you need help.  There is a great AA meeting down the street (he knows where the club is) at 6:30 every morning and it is a wonderful spiritual group.  He looked at his watch.  I left.


I have a busy night tonite - picking up a friend for a meeting with both AAs and Alanons, (talk about a good laugh - great meeting).


On my lunch hour I made reservations for a cheap motel in the mountains for me - tomorrownight and Saturday.  I have to escape the insanity!!!  I feel good about it.  I just don't want to see him for a while, deal with all of this for a while.  It's probably cold up there but I will bring a good book, and try to begin to do some artwork (which I have not done for years!!)


Thanks for all your love and wisdom here.  It's going to be a great day and a great weekend!!!  Wish we could all meet there and HANG out!


 


Love, Heidixxxx


 



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Good for you Heidi...........I wish we could all come and meet there too. I've never done anything like that before but think it might be refreshing.

Have a great time and let us know if you enjoyed it.

YFIR...Gail

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((((Hersh))))


Sorry for the rage-n-run last night.  That always scares me when I get woke up like that.  It's like the house should be on fire or something, but no, the A is just showing her bad side again.


Enjoy the mountain retreat... I will be there with you in spirit!


Way to take care of you!



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Barbara


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Have a great weekend! Relax and come back refreshed


Im attending 2 weekend retreats in Nov and looking forward to my time to recharge. I feel like Im starting to get myself back.



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((((((((((((Heidi)))))))))))))))))

YOU GO GIRL! That's awesome. That's self-care. I think it's wonderful.

yours in recovery,
Maria

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A few days in the mountains with a good book sounds WONDERFUL !! Good for YOU :)
That will restore you. I am so proud of where you are and where you have come..

YOU GO GIRL :)


Have a GREAT time and call if you need me

Tammy

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((((((((((Heidi)))))))))),

Have a wonderful "Piper weekend". You so deserve it. That's the way to be good to yourself. I love the thought of the mountains in the fall. Look out for the "Great Pumpkin" and the Red Baron! Relax and enjoy yourself. Here's to peaceful .

Live strong,
Karilynn & Pipers Kitty

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Heidi,
Hope you have a great weekend and enjoy your time to yourself.

Take care,
AM

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Yeah good for you. I work at a hotel and officially from next week I can get free nights so I am going to do this from when the following week. I cannot wait to get away!  I may just be going down the street but I know this will help.  I am so so so glad for you that you can take care of yourself in this way.  I wish I could before now.


Maresie.



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