The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
Wed. nite my hubby (an A)dissappease. Once again I think he is on a binge (and I was wrong)
Couldn't bare the pain again and found this web site. You pulled me through a very hard time, gave me information to help myself, and it worked.Was what u were doing before worked cher? nope, well time to change that, and I did. I didn't go and hunt him down this time, left well enough alone, he came home on Monday, left because it was his birthday, felt sorry for himself and was going to go binging, but decided not too, knew I won't, couldnt stop him, so he checked into detox., my attutude knocked him over. Was able to talk with him in a sensible manner, wasnt sure if he was ready to stop drinking or even go to AA, but when I told him that I was going to go to Alanon, it changes. He then started to refer to himfels as an A and told me if I was going to do that then we should go to an AA meeting together. this a huge step for him, it is nice to see. I will still persue alanon, but will also support him by going to AA. He wants me to be able to see both sides of the coin, to better understand. I am taking this and running it with it, hope to have success, no we will fall mAny times, but will always help eachother up.
U R Amazing, all of u, u have made a huge differnce in someones life, congradulations on a job well done.
This place has been my saving grace. When I am needing to talk to someone and don't want to call an alanon buddy because I am worried about waking someone up, I can come here and just getting it out helps. And then, wow there is someone up as late as I am and they offer me ESH.
I am glad that you were given the words that you needed to hear.
Keep coming back, this place is great!
Yours in recovery,
Dolphin123
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