The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
I was reading today about how it's never too late to become happy. Healing from trauma allows us to become alive again. I also read that we can use the power of our minds to change our brain chemistry.
I believe this is what happens in recovery. During my 14 years in alanon I've gone from a depressed and angry human to someone who now feels happy much of the time. I look for blessings and gratitude. I can find humor and laugh at silly, simple things. Life feels so much better. I've learned that I deserve love and respect. And let it begin with me....