Some people judge their self-worth by their accomplishments and on what others say.  In this manner, a sense of satisfaction is fleeting.  But another part of self-worth can be by their ability to love others--saying a kind word, writing a considerate note, or just by appreciating someone else.  We can feel good about ourselves without evaluating our achievements or relying on others.

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My transition into adulthood was fraught with fear and doubt.  I did not have a consistent or good sense of self.  I often relied on others to define me and that's a train wreck waiting to happen.  Over the years I did improve, but it is this program that has given me a sense of consistency about myself.  Do I make mistakes and mess up at times?  Sure.  But especially the work with my sponsor allowed me to see a whole self, good and bad, and achieve a sense of self worth from the way I treat others:  the same way I wish to be treated.