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My adult daughter has relapsed again, and m so worried about her! I woke up a few minutes ago from a terrible nightmare about her, and had a panic attack. She lives about 2,000 miles away, in a different time zone, and I really want to text to see if she is ok, but don't want her fiancé to intercept. should text to ease my mind or try to let its go? If anyone is awake and has been in this situation, please advise!
-- Edited by Buckeye Girl on Saturday 5th of October 2019 02:12:01 AM
If there are not family or friends around there that you know of, her life could be in danger. I support Betty's idea to involve the police. Give us an update when you can, Lyne.
(((Buckeye Girl))) - so very sorry to hear of the relapse in your daughter as well as how it's affecting you, your sleep and your level of worry. I have also involved the police for well visits/missing child when I was concerned for their safety. Both of mine have gone missing for extended periods of time during relapses, and it's extremely frightening. It's times like this when I have really ramped up the use of all the tools recovery has to offer.
Please know you are not alone and try to take good care of you! Prayers for a positive outcome and positive thoughts headed your way too!
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Practice the PAUSE...Pause before judging. Pause before assuming. Pause before accusing. Pause whenever you are about to react harshly and you will avoid doing and saying things you will later regret. ~~~~ Lori Deschene
