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ok ok not A stuff


It is poison oak not bugs...I have it on my tummy and butt cheek the worst..lol I got it from my wonderful little Basset Tavish. He always sleeps with me, either against my chest in my arms, or he is against my back....va la poison oak at the points of inpact of a dumb, but cute dog...


And.... the best med to use is. Preparation H. Butt cream. So I get to put butt cream on my face on my cheek on my tummy, arms, arm pits, I have it everywhere.


Every night tavish and I cuddle and play. He is the one who fills in that hole in my gut.


Well since I am here... protective services called me again. The gal was so wonderful. She went to check on my mil yesterday and went again today.


My A got some work so that means he will buy a bottle. that means he will be abusive.


even if ps cannot do anything. The A knows I won't put up with him physically attacking his mother. I told his sis I was calling them, and I did.


thank you for responding to my posts....hugs,debilyn



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Yikes!


I did not know you could get that from a dog!  Don't scratch!


 


Julia



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That is really kind of you to take care of your MIL Debilyn.  Is it haemorrhoid cream you are using because that is supposed to be marvellous for wrinkles?lol.  Take care.  Luv Leo xx

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(((Debilynn)))

Ugh!!! That stuff is terrible!!!!
You might want to wash your dog and your sheets!!! I suppose you already know, but it's the oil of the plant that causes the break out, not the plant itself.

Glad you called PS to protect your MIL...and too bad she needs protection, so sad.

Christy

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I'm really sorry to hear that your reality is that when your A gets work that

1) he will buy a bottle
2) he will be abusive
3) you won't put up with A physically attacking his mother (does this mean it is okay if he attacks you? I hope not.)
4) ps cannot do anything

For some people when their loved one gets work, it is good news. I wish that for you.
I also hope that you allow God to help fill that hole in your gut. Take good care of yourself.

Be Blessed,
Kady

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Sorry to hear you have posion oak. I have washed the beagle dog in special shampoos and she does not seem to have rashs at much anymore.  Nevertheless as we all know having dogs means a mess. I am just sorry it affects you.


I am glad it is only a few weeks till the A goes to jail for your sake, for his family's sake for all.  I think prison may be the one thing that saves him.  A therapist once said that some people have to have an external force control them they have no control themselves.  The A seems to be like that he has no limits at all with anyone.  I  know I have got there with being limitless the problem for me is that the victim is always me.


I am so glad that you are taking care of your. I hope it will just be a matter of days for everyone in your life.


Maresie.



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yep yep I know it is the oil of the plant, belieeeeeeve me I know. I have been attacked by it alll my life.


My llamas and goats, bless their hearts, eat it to the ground on my place. yes I bathed Tavish. I used to have it almost year round. Was awful


 Yes Leo my friend it is that which we ALL use to shrink wrinkles. Though I must say I don't have any.. my family does not wrinkle. BUT it is becuz we are blessed with these squirrel cheeked faces...sigh in other words, our fat fills our faces out...hehe


NO I won't be around A at all now. nope nope nope. If he even touches me I will call 911 and get his wrinkled no fat ass in jail.


It would do him a world of good to go in faster anyhow.


I am working on rescuing a feedlot horse from CBER. Pray for me and Bugs to be together. He needs me but I need him more.


If you want to see him search columbia basin equine rescue. go to feedlot efforts, he is the second one down. Bugs.


hugs, debilyn



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Debilynn,

I looked up Bugs! How in the world do you choose? I wanted to rescue them all!
I'll say a prayer for you and Bugs that he spend his final years at Potter's Eden amongst the green grass and the loving human :)

Christy

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I'm highly allergic to Poison ivy, oak, sumac all of it..
There's a cream that I pretreat my skin with if I know I might be around it. Of course I can't think of the name of it, but it works. It makes a barrier against your skin and the itchy cooties.

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(((Debilyn  Oh, you poor baby!  I had poison ivy last year all over my arms and body, never had it before in my life.   I hate poison stuff!  Hope you are doing much better.


Love in Recovery


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