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Hope for Today- August 31...


Hi y'all,

The reading today is about a member whose parents were alcoholics, and so it hubby.

My mum went drinking with dad too- but she did not become alcoholic. The atmosphere around the home was not like party fun- dancing and singing- nor the bars, neither. I longed for world which had happiness and singing in it.

There was a key line in the reading today which struck me: "After few months, I was able to call my sponsor and told here I no longer needed to rely on her faith because I had my own!"

I have heard, in the programme that we can love people- until they are ready to love themselves. Ok, so I have been in the inside of this and I sense this in this group! It does not have to be one on one!

I could not go out there and love everyone to bits- and expect them to change. I think I tried that in my family- from a young age. I believe it is important to practise discernment and timing. After all- that is what emotional intimacy is... in-time-acy.

And being ready, and being willing, and being okay inside, myself.

uhuh... thanks for the chance to share here. smile ...



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thank you , ((((David)))) Lovely share....and yea, i can relate to having to borrow another's love for me until I could love myself....

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Thanks David and mamalioness-With my FOO I had inconsistency, fear, no protection, and as a result, no self esteem. I'm in my second alcoholic marriage and although now I have a dry drunk, my sponsor and Alanon have been instrumental in teaching me it's OK to love myself. It's not only OK, but I've learned that with my flaws and imperfections, I am worthy of love and respect. Without this program, I would have remained lost. Grateful member, Lyne

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Thank you David for this great topic!

To be ready, willing and okay within myself...there are good days and not so good days with this. But at least they aren't bad days! LOL!
Progress not perfection!

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