The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
You reassured me all the things I already knew in my heart, and gave me the strenght tp walk away without being manipulated.
I will keep coming back.
This morning I told my A bf that I no longer wanted to be in a relationship with a man who cared more about substance abuse than he did his relationship or family.
Of course I got the standard "whatever" "I dont do that" bla bla bla
I also said : I am not asking you to change, I simply want to speak my peace and move on to a peaceful, drama free life. Even though we did not live together, HIS drink binges caused greif in my home and that simply could not be allowed. See I cant control his drinking but I do have control of my own household, I worked very hard to get a home of my own for me and my children.
See, I barley got out alive from a husband who not only had a cocain and alcohol addiction but also had very severe case of narcissitic personality disorder! (lovely little disorder, scary, and unimaginable)
Well, I did meet another addict! LOL but I must be getting better cuz this one only has one promblem insted of three.
