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Post Info TOPIC: The 12 step prayer book Jun 24


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The 12 step prayer book Jun 24


the 12 step prayer book goes into expectations

 

often times I would have unrealistic expectations and end up disappointed and bitter

now I ask me. Is this expectation realistic?? Doable under my capabilities??  If it is reasonable, my HP will give me the power and resources to do it

the serenity prayer comes to mind where I ask for courage to change the things that I can change. I realize I can only change me

that abusive job I quit. My only expectation was for me to get out of abusive environment. If I expected an apology from her, I would have been disappointed. I never expected anything from her. Nothing at all. My only expectation was my relieving myself from abuse and bad environment 



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Rose, a work in progress!!!

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I learned long ago that unrealistic expectations are premeditated resentments

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Rose, a work in progress!!!

KEEP IT SIMPLE_EASY DOES IT_KEEP THE FOCUS ON ME



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Well tomorrow I would have gone to the place where I quit..Instead , I'll be going to an office that is CLEAN, the client is NICE...respects me...yea, I needed the money that the other one brought to me but just gonna have to trust that because I put out good energy and did the right thing by me, I'll be OK...another good client will come my way in time

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Rose, a work in progress!!!

KEEP IT SIMPLE_EASY DOES IT_KEEP THE FOCUS ON ME

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