The material presented
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information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
After months of hardly any contact and then avoiding me, living with someone else it looks like I might finally get some closure.
Iāve looked at my own behaviour a lot whilst Iāve been away from them. Iāve held back on my love a lot when theyāve started drinking. Pushed them away.
Thereās been too many secrets in our relationship and I know now your as sick as your secrets. Iāve been sick too.
You have to let go of what causes you pain in the end to be truly happy. So we will meet at their request this week and then it will be NC for me and I will move on with my life.
Part of me wants them to say sorry and declare undying love for me but that wonāt happen. Anyone who has a sibling or child with A - I send you love as I know Cutting them out of your life is near impossible and glad you have al anon to help you
Prays are with you all
"The wolf that thrives, is the one you feed." - Cherokee legend
"Hello, sun in my face. Hello you who made the morning and spread it over the fields... Watch, now, how I start the day in happiness, in kindness." Mary Oliver
(((Carly))) - I'm also sending positive thoughts and prayers your way. Your plan sound forward-facing - good use of program tools!!
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Practice the PAUSE...Pause before judging. Pause before assuming. Pause before accusing. Pause whenever you are about to react harshly and you will avoid doing and saying things you will later regret. ~~~~ Lori Deschene
