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After my anger vent about the abf being lazy, not moving, ect...I had posted my vent of anger about his laziness...well, he is now moving and doing dishes and singing, I work hard for my money...I burst out laughing...the insanity of it all..
I appreciate that form of humor also. Just when I "think" I know it all and how it all works ...the gremlins come home with the real solutions. Best to wait and let go and see what will be revealed next. LOL (((hugs)))
I guess what I have learned to expect from my A is inconsistency, and my sponsor suggested I have no expectations, which has helped me a great deal. It's like living in a fun house-what you see may not be real, nothing may last, but you may get some good too! It takes a strong person to cope with life like this, and that's one of the things Alanon helps me with-becoming stronger, and that's no joke! Lyne
"The wolf that thrives, is the one you feed." - Cherokee legend
"Hello, sun in my face. Hello you who made the morning and spread it over the fields... Watch, now, how I start the day in happiness, in kindness." Mary Oliver
Thanks for the chuckle Joker - I do know that humor has saved my sanity often....probably more often I even know! Keep doing you!
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Practice the PAUSE...Pause before judging. Pause before assuming. Pause before accusing. Pause whenever you are about to react harshly and you will avoid doing and saying things you will later regret. ~~~~ Lori Deschene