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OK, so I know we need to focus on ourselves and not on our Qualifiers, but this is so funny I just had to post!
Thursday is my AH's payday, so it's been a rough 2 days. Tonight he was drunk, but not enough to pass out. Just enough to be angry and obnoxious. I basically tried to leave him alone.
But at one point he asked a question that I didn't hear, so I walked into the bedroom and said I didn't hear you. He said the question again and it was so garbled that it was obvious that he was flying high. So here is my focus... I didn't get angry or accusing, I just said, "What?"
So my AH says to me, "Wow! My lips are frozen!" He was currently eating ice cream. I actually had to leave the room for fear of laughing out loud! THAT was his reasoning for the garbily-gook that had just left his mouth! It couldn't be all the vodka you drank, oh no! Bwahahahaha!
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