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I have to add to this button,as my thoughts start wondering,
I'm finding my aha moments in my home ,
Bein 6 mths since I've even talked to my xbf,
My thinking of just yesterd
Ay as I was flipping through my tv channels is wow ,I can watch t.v.,I can watch ,record anything I want so I did cause I could,lol
Then my fridge I'm thinking everything thing in that fridge I know what it is and that I bought it,
My whole diet has changed ,diff foods,
Healthier everything now a days....
Thank all of you for being here and supporting me along my journey to being a better me.....hugs,lu
lookingup, this is a great story thank you for sharing, I remember those moments very well. I love not having to share the TV with anyone but my grandson when he is at my house. We all deserve to feel that way, thanks again for a great reminder.
Hi Lu recovery is a process and I too found that changes happened without my actually noticing them. I love to reflect back at the end of each year and review all the different ways I have responded differently and how my life has changed. Thanks for being here and sharing the journey. This is why we need to keep coming back. :)
Aha moments are one of the gifts of the program. I had an Aha moment last week, that took me 6 months to achieve, and it was something my son told me months ago. It's probably a combination of HP at work, all the tools floating around in our brains, and for me I would add a certain "readiness" to be able to accept something I didn't want to. I'm a grateful member of Alanon, Lyne
Aloha LU and thanks for the post. Because of the gift of long memory I have constant AHA!! moments and this is one of my gratitudes of recovery. My memory is almost indelible so I am almost never away from those that raised me in recovery. Glad you dropped back in with this subject matter. (((hugs)))
I'm another who's grateful for this thread and grateful for the Aha moments recovery brings! (((Hugs))) to all!
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Practice the PAUSE...Pause before judging. Pause before assuming. Pause before accusing. Pause whenever you are about to react harshly and you will avoid doing and saying things you will later regret. ~~~~ Lori Deschene
