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I got free from an abusive dysfunctional relationship through alanon. By saying things like 'you might be right' and actually believing that yes from your point of view you might be. Saying ' I'm sorry you feel that way' again, meaning it. I was sorry my alcoholic feels angry and hostile but I was not taking responsibility for how they feel any longer.  



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That is wonderful. So glad to hear how these tools have worked for you. Welcome to Miracles In Progress. I would love to hear more of your story.

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Welcome Easy Those tools do work when we are sincere(as you are ) in making these statements. Glad that you are here and sharing the journey



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Thank you easy for sharing,,I'm been practicing new tools also ,yes they do work,,,I'm grateful for alanon ,keep on a keeping on,your worth it ......hugs...lu

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Welcome to MIP Easy - I love the real life examples of....'It works when you work it and you're worth it'.....so, so true and hopeful. Glad that you are here - keep coming back!

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Practice the PAUSE...Pause before judging.  Pause before assuming.  Pause before accusing.  Pause whenever you are about to react harshly and you will avoid doing and saying things you will later regret.  ~~~~  Lori Deschene

 

 
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