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So I'm staying in a motel as I told my husband that until he makes an appt for counseling at Kaiser to start a rehab program, I need to be away for a while. I know this is finally what I need to do...but I feel sooo guilty to leave him on Christmas Day.
Naomi - sending you positive thoughts and prayers! Loving an alcoholic is never easy - take it easy and take good care of you!
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Practice the PAUSE...Pause before judging. Pause before assuming. Pause before accusing. Pause whenever you are about to react harshly and you will avoid doing and saying things you will later regret. ~~~~ Lori Deschene
I am sure you are feeling a whole lot more than guilt which often pointed the finger back at me when I felt it. I was wrong and then I was not when I learned to look at the whole picture and not only my part in it. You are where you are at for a reason...a good reason and it is the best you can do with what you have...Merry Christmas to you under the circumstances and HP bless. ((((hugs))))
