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just when i think ive squared away feelings about my XAH, something pops up. discovered that my niece recieved about a yr ago, inappropriate emails,messages from my XAH. she is still a minor. Im so angry..she has had enough trouble in her life including losing her mom at age 6. I could !@$#^(**)___ him !!!!!!!!!
(((Alyce))) - that would be a tough pill to swallow.....I am sorry that you're faced with this. I hope you can find gratitude in the reality that he's no longer a part of your life and his choices, actions, words, deeds are NOT a reflection on you.
Sending you tons of (((hugs))), positive thoughts and prayers - two things that popped into my mind --- More will be revealed and breathe! Lean into your program and trust the process. You got this!
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Practice the PAUSE...Pause before judging. Pause before assuming. Pause before accusing. Pause whenever you are about to react harshly and you will avoid doing and saying things you will later regret. ~~~~ Lori Deschene
That is terrible. It's so hard to let go of the time you allowed someone like that to stay in your life. I agree, much gratitude that he is gone and you can heal the wreckage.
(((Hugs)))
