The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
Im so grateful to be out of the insanity, the whirling dervish that was my life 8 mths ago. XAH has of course relapsed after his 4-5 mth stay in rehab and now down the slippery slope to death by bottle of vodka[ many bottles of vodka]
Me, Im unemployed still, money running low but Im happier then Ive been ever. I try to balance my independence with my new guy who is so good to me,kind wise and supportive.
I have my cat and little projects i do while seeking employment. There are still complications with me & x,s house, tax debt and my x sis in law dragging her feet, trying to solve x's situation. But that is her circus. She chose it. I try to have as little to do with that situation as i can
I go alot of places, i smile and laugh alot. I feel very free....
I am coming to believe that gratitude is one of the biggest healers! Loved your post and so glad you are in a great spot, despite all the other stuff. Good for you and thank you for your inspirational post!
Great share Alyce - kudos to you for working your program and staying on your side of the street!
Happy, happy, happy birthday girl - here's to a great new year!
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Practice the PAUSE...Pause before judging. Pause before assuming. Pause before accusing. Pause whenever you are about to react harshly and you will avoid doing and saying things you will later regret. ~~~~ Lori Deschene
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