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So I heard from the attorney yesterday and what do you know we are almost done. LOL . this time true story.
X has finally submitted his paperwork so we will be going forward and dealing with everything sooner than later. Now the question is did X actually read the agreement. He's not going to be a happy boy. Not my problem thank goodness.
I'm thinking within 3 weeks things should be finalized and within another 2 weeks after that things will be over. I do wonder what the motive was to drag it out as long as he did what I have to laugh about is I think they were walking in and trying to lower the amount of what he owed back wise .. well so sorry he already agreed to that amount it is not my issue that he's not happy now about what he agreed to in Jan 2015 when he was trying to get married in a hurry. I will say that they are both being contrite at the moment and I think a BIG portion of that is that his attorney took X to task in a big way. He really embarrassed X in front of myself and my attorney. It is probably a good thing that the wife was out of the room because I'm sure she would have been shocked over what was said to X. He was SERIOUSLY called out.
Anyway, please continued prayers this is resolved sooner than later as well as everything works out as it needs to.
Thanks,
S :)
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Faith minus vulnerability and mystery equals extremism. If you've got all the answers, then don't call what you do "faith". - Brene Brown
"Whatever truth you own doesn't own you" - Gary John Bishop
Hey girl - it sounds as if finally you'll be 'done'.....congrats. for doing you, and working your program....I'll keep sending prayers and positive thoughts your way!! (((Hugs)))
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Practice the PAUSE...Pause before judging. Pause before assuming. Pause before accusing. Pause whenever you are about to react harshly and you will avoid doing and saying things you will later regret. ~~~~ Lori Deschene