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I just need some prayers .. LOL .. it is so good I have moved so far away.
It is now apparent that the XAH's wife is into playing games as he is which is fine .. it's like these people don't get I'm not going away.
The kids go back to school on the 22nd .. we have a lot to accomplish between now and then .. kids need doctor, dental appointments that we have not been able to get because of the flack over the insurance. I need to follow up with them and figure out what is going on.
School supplies and clothes are a must .. the texting that went on between the wife and myself was hysterical .. she had the kids pick out backpacks off of LLBean.com high end stuff however on sale I don't care as long as the kids get what they need .. they show up yesterday and OMGOSH .. what a dumb woman .. I didn't bother looking at the site .. well they come and they are kids backpacks .. daughter is a senior this year and son is in middle school kiddie backpacks are not going to work. She went on about how they couldn't afford to do more and now all of a sudden she wants to spend 60$ per backpack .. LOL .. ookkk .. I was like whatever. I'm not going to sweat it however Seriously? The whiney response I got from her originally was just seriously silliness. So I don't know what is up with that in the least.
So I am just trying to breath and I have a lot more stress coming however I am going to have to make the most of it and realized that the XAH is never going to do the right thing.
I will just take a breath and know it is all going to workout the way it needs to still when will it just become a business transaction?
Hugs S :)
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Faith minus vulnerability and mystery equals extremism. If you've got all the answers, then don't call what you do "faith". - Brene Brown
"Whatever truth you own doesn't own you" - Gary John Bishop
OH.......................bummer and good LORD! That's what came to my mind! I shop a ton online and you the devil is in the details!
So sorry you are sucked into game playing! Sending you prayers and positive thoughts my friend.....
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Practice the PAUSE...Pause before judging. Pause before assuming. Pause before accusing. Pause whenever you are about to react harshly and you will avoid doing and saying things you will later regret. ~~~~ Lori Deschene
Is the judge going to decide on backpack sizing??? Just kidding - but I couldn't help share a smile at the thought of it!
You sound in a much better place Serenity - I'm sorry those folks are trying your patience - your Louise Hay quote seems awfully appropriate in the circumstances. They will do it...!
Lol Millwood .. Judge is going to tell him no payment plan pay money upfront. I would love that .. Especially if wife is removed from the room again LOL
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Faith minus vulnerability and mystery equals extremism. If you've got all the answers, then don't call what you do "faith". - Brene Brown
"Whatever truth you own doesn't own you" - Gary John Bishop
