I had to laugh during the crazy meeting I had with my x and the attorney's, it was brought up that X provided 1 paystub in which I asked my attorney later if that was ok or not.  LOL!  Of course you are not going to process child support off of 1 paystub. 

My attorney contacted me back and said she would work on getting the information and that it was not ok.  She is extremely irritated not with me thank goodness with him and of course his twisted idea of what he will get away with.

In keeping things simple I went ahead and reached out to the wife and let her know that X needed to provide more than one paystub.  I did not bother with X this time since it's obvious he is completely unreasonable at this point.  The anger he has is still so great over the fact he has a consequence over his choices. 

Of course I have not heard from her and I know she's not going to be happy however once again we can do this one of two ways .. you either provide the information or you don't based upon the fact that there is no choice .. it will just go to court with him explaining why this was an issue.  I am floored he continues to do this.  This is diseased thinking at its finest .. so drinking or not .. his thinking is definitely screwed up. 

Anyway, it is what it is and it will be resolved it's a matter of time and it will be highly uncomfortable for him .. so not my issue.

Thanks for being here, S :)