The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
it all started because i ordered some bras ...lol. They were delivered to my old house where xah lives. So i had to call him and call to send them to me...which opened a line of communication that has virtually been sealed for 9 mths . Now, he has lots of questions about the house, his doctor,bills etc that his sis in law overloaded with tons of family problems including him, didnt know.
So he calls and i fall back easily into spewing answers, offering advice and guidance..THEN I GET OFF PHONE AND YELL " OMG !!!!! IM DOING IT AGAIN !!!!!!!!!!" STOP STOP ALYCE."
GIVE ME STRENGTH AND SERENITY HP, BECAUSE I FELL BACK INTO OLD HABITS ... MUST STOP COLD !!
*((((Alyce))) Remember that it is Progress not perfection we seek It took us a long time to even recognize the destructive tools that we had developed and it will take time to shed them completely.
On a positive note at least you saw it immediately and reached for support .
(((Alyce))) - positive thoughts and prayers your way girl - I agree - great job recognizing so you can continue your path with your truth - progress not perfection is spot on...
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Practice the PAUSE...Pause before judging. Pause before assuming. Pause before accusing. Pause whenever you are about to react harshly and you will avoid doing and saying things you will later regret. ~~~~ Lori Deschene
