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My abf came over for a visit and cooked breakfast for me and my addict sister,I can't let him move back in ,my sister can't believe I kicked him out knowing he is going to prison in 3 or4 myths for years,sister says its non of her bus.but she can't see how I can kick a man down when he is already down and going to prison I should have never allowed him to move in 4 mths ago ,I can't help my decisions a real mine,maybe i am being cold hearted,I dunno,I know I've allowed a lot ,yes I'm been knowing what he does which before it was all drinking now it's needles,and he is addicted to needles,make me sick to think about it,im concerned for him he is a really nice person and caring,and helpful,he is going in for intent to sell and distribute a control substance which holds a maximum of 6 yrs,I told him nicely that he needed to go somewhere else and stay,i even gave him one more night here,I guess I'm needing to know ....is that am I dead wrong for kicking him out ??? I'm ha e to always be the bad guy,cause it's my house.its hard enough as it is,dealing with her my sister,this is where I start feeling insane.......hugs lunonono



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And I didn't invite him over he came over I thought to get the rest of his things instead he asks if anybody wants breakfast he will cook sister says yea she did,so I'm lost ,confused and feeling all alone here, on this.am I wrong? What did I do wrong? And how do I deal with my sister ? She is an addict herself.,,I sure hope this works it's self out on its own cause I'm lost.

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I don't have to j.a.d.e to my a sister or nobody I can choose to walk away.or him abf it's called taking care of me myself and feeling good about it.

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LU it is normal to feel lost and confused when we giving up a relationship You aare grieving what could have been and it takes time. Be gentle with yourself, recite the serenity prayer come here often and trust HP

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