What if h don't leave?theres my what ifs again,he may not,I'll just ask him nicely again? Then he will still try to use me ,my being nice etc,,,good hearted ness and my sister will fall sorry or bad for him ,I done talked to her about it and told her to not say a thing when I ask him to leave she bad to say ...I'm cold hearted,or being cold hearted toward him kicking him when he is down,omg........Lu.....I know I'm ousting all over this board right now as abf is running doing things to please me and sister trying to get me to change my mind ,he needy very needy,and this is he considers his home,what others tell me,it's so convenient for him to live here.nice home ,middle of town,get to his druggies easier,etc