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whoooo it will be official in 6mths. new boyfriend is going to take me then for a cruise to celebrate my b-day and official end of divorce
Soon to be XAH now in rehab and will be served there. his sister is helping to manage everything thank g-d
i guess this is when HP has decided would be the time and he has also helped me find my new boyfriend who is made to order and a trully wonderful person
Alyce - congrats. on your news - may everything continue to go smoothly for you and may you begin getting excited for your birthday!!!
(((Hugs)))
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Practice the PAUSE...Pause before judging. Pause before assuming. Pause before accusing. Pause whenever you are about to react harshly and you will avoid doing and saying things you will later regret. ~~~~ Lori Deschene
Hello Alyce! I totally dont blame you for not being willing to put up with an AH ANY LONGER! What a drag! Heartbreak, etc. I hope you have a wonderful time on your cruise dear one!
Yes, poster above, we have the keys to our chains! AMEN! WHY should any woman live with such chaos, such strife, such family trauma, especially if there are kids involved.???? NO, thank you.
My AH has only gotten so in the past 5 years or so, out of our 20---some marriage. I think all because of financial difficulty which BTW HE caused. Well, I am thinking differently finally, that I don't have to live with this if I don't want to. We have a major change coming on, a move to a different city, and I am hoping and praying it will be the change needed.
Anyone reading this, if you are trapped with a raging alcoholic maniac, you must know you DON"T have to have this life if you don't want to. It's all in your hands really.
If I had no children or was newly married I'd do many things differently. You do have choices. Dont think you don't.
