Hi Fairlee Here is a great posting that addressed the issue of sponsorship very clearly. It is up to you to decide.
I have a sponsee who is 23 years old and in school, a woman who just retired and two others in their middle age . It does not matter the age difference, as the most important issue is that you feel comfortable with each other.


SPONSORSHIP -What It Is and What It Isn't

Four major points in sponsorship that most Twelve Step Fellowship members will agree on:

1.The primary responsibility of sponsors is to help their sponsees work the Twelve Steps.

2.A sponsor and sponsee have an obligation to discuss their mutual expectations, objectives, and requirements, if any, regarding the sponsorship relationship before they enter into that relationship.

3.A sponsor shares his or her experience, strength, and hope with his or her sponsee rather than trying to run the sponsee's life.

4.A sponsor must never take advantage of a sponsee in any way.

WHAT DOES A SPONSOR DO?

1.A sponsor's primary responsibility is to help a sponsee work the Twelve Steps by providing explanation, guidance, and encouragement.

2.A sponsor helps us get established quickly in our Fellowship by explaining basic concepts and terminology and by introducing us to other members.

3.A sponsor is a safe person who we can learn to trust.

4.A sponsor can answer the many questions that we have as newcomers or develop as "mid-timers."

5.A sponsor can help us in the process of self-examination that the Steps require.

6.A sponsor encourages us to read the basis text of our Fellowship and other program literature and to engage in Fellowship activities and service work.

7.A sponsor can monitor our progress, confront us when it is appropriate, and generally help us stay on the recovery path.

8.A sponsor reminds us to apply Twelve Step principles in our lives.

9.A sponsor models the Twelve Step program of recovery.

10. Our sponsor is available in times of crisis.

11. A sponsor provides practice in building relationships.

WHAT A SPONSOR DOES NOT DO

1.A sponsor cannot keep us in recovery.

2.A sponsor is not our therapist. The Twelve Steps are about spiritual growth, not therapy.

3.A sponsor should not attempt to control our lives or encourage an unhealthy dependence.

4.A sponsor should not take advantage of us or exploit us in any way.

FACTORS TO CONSIDER IN CHOOSING A SPONSOR

1.Has what we want.

2.Lives in the solution.

3.Walks the talk

4.Has a sponsor

5.Emphasizes the Steps

6.Has more time in recovery that we do

7.Has worked more Steps than we have

8.Is available for telephone calls and meetings

9.Emphasizes the spiritual aspect of the program

10. Gender is the same as ours

It is a privilege to sponsor someone. And it's one of the ways we stay in recovery.

You go Fairlee...if they say no you can respond "Thank You...could you suggest someone"?  and then listen.  ((((hugs))))