I finally took some action. I called the bank and since the mortgage is only in his name, my credit rating will not be affected and if the house sells I have half of the value. I did a stupid thing and called him. He was with her at her place and I got into a heated argument with him and her. I was so mad, I shook like a leaf. He is still drinking and I told him I will not give him another dime for anything when and if he asks. That game is over. I have my own fiances so I am grateful for that. I am so angry that I was taken for a fool. He threatened to move out-I said go then. I said your things are here and get out. He said buy me out and I said, talk to my lawyer, talk to my lawyer. I feel grateful I can stand up for me and not get caught up in the craziness. I should not have phoned him but I was so angry! So angry! Then it became a three way drama argument! She was yelling at me and he was to. I do not need that. Today, I am here and I got all my paperwork in order to take to the lawyer. I should not have called him but I wanted confirmation about him and here. I guess I got what I need now, confirmation and that is ok. He still has a number of bills to pay, thank god its not in my name. He has a 2nd mortgage on this house-all in his name. The only thing I have in my name here is the title on the house, cable, phone, internet. The rest is his burden to carry! I am angry, angry that I was used and taken advantage of. I helped this man so much to get his life back together, help pay his bills, and this is what I get! I am livid. I know that things will get better, but today, I am angry. I learned a lesson never trust lies! I will be reading more on line and getting my focus back-me! Thanks for letting me rant!