The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
Here I am in situation that I have no or little control of. I am in the middle looking out. My group us changing the day we meet. Not a problem looking from the outside. But I wasn't informed of a permanent change. I guess I can meet on a different day. I have been praying about going to something else but I know I need the meeting. We only have one meeting in our small town. & there are too many shake ups in my life already. I am looking foe suggestions. Maybe opinions. There is more to it but I really can't go into it. I sm not angry but concerned about my part in this. I am not going to get into it any further. It is really up to the group & an issue w our meeting place. I am letting myself be out of the loop.
Kathleen
Kathleen - I still struggle with change - big or small - it's one of those things that unsettles my 'norm'. What I've learned about me is I do better with structure and a plan so being spontaneous is very difficult as is uncertainty. Trust your HP - he's there for you and hasn't let you down yet!!
(((Hugs)))
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Practice the PAUSE...Pause before judging. Pause before assuming. Pause before accusing. Pause whenever you are about to react harshly and you will avoid doing and saying things you will later regret. ~~~~ Lori Deschene