The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
Looking back at some of my posts it was quite a painful year,I shed a lot of tears,There were days the pain was so intense I didn't think I was going to survive it, But I did. I am discovering amazing things about myself,abilities I didn't even know I had.I am starting to really enjoy the changes that are coming in my life,I am learning to make healthier choices for myself.I want to wish everyone a peaceful new year and if you are struggling,believe me the pain will subside and you will find a way.When I started this program I had pretty much lost everything. Somehow I survived and am able to continue to make even more choices that enrich my life,what a blessing it is to be able to finally live my life.I was terrified at first,but now I find relief in being in charge of my life.I am no longer chained to an illness.I will never again be sitting and crying because the person I am counting on just spent all the bill money on drugs,or is screaming at me.I am learning to value myself and that feels good.I have hope today,and that is something that I lost.How I did it,I was miserable and wanted my life to be different,I just dove into this program and did what my therapist suggested and it worked.Peace to all.
Happiest of New Years to you too! It's been a growing year for me as well, and I am finding myself grateful to be where I am and looking forward to a New Year!
May you day be blessed too - (((hugs)))
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Practice the PAUSE...Pause before judging. Pause before assuming. Pause before accusing. Pause whenever you are about to react harshly and you will avoid doing and saying things you will later regret. ~~~~ Lori Deschene
Happy New Year Mary and IAMH You have both worked very hard this year and deserve to enjoy the fruits of your hard work.
I appreciate all your work and enjoy sharing this journey.