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Post Info TOPIC: The New Year


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The New Year


Looking back at some of my posts it was quite a painful year,I shed a lot of tears,There were days the pain was so intense I didn't think I was going to survive it, But I did. I am discovering amazing things about myself,abilities I didn't even know I had.I am starting to really enjoy the changes that are coming in my life,I am learning to make healthier choices for myself.I want to wish everyone a peaceful new year and if you are struggling,believe me the pain will subside and you will find a way.When I started this program I had pretty much lost everything. Somehow I survived and am able to continue to make even more choices that enrich my life,what a blessing it is to be able to finally live my life.I was terrified at first,but now I find relief in being in charge of my life.I am no longer chained to an illness.I will never again be sitting and crying because the person I am counting on just spent all the bill money on drugs,or is screaming at me.I am learning to value myself and that feels good.I have hope today,and that is something that I lost.How I did it,I was miserable and wanted my life to be different,I just dove into this program and did what my therapist suggested and it worked.Peace to all.



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Mary



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Mary -

Happiest of New Years to you too! It's been a growing year for me as well, and I am finding myself grateful to be where I am and looking forward to a New Year!

May you day be blessed too - (((hugs)))

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Happy New Year Mary and IAMH You have both worked very hard this year and deserve to enjoy the fruits of your hard work.
I appreciate all your work and enjoy sharing this journey.

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I am truly very happy for you Mary. Good work and wishing you a very happy and prosperous new year!!



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I hope i do as well in the new year as u did this past yr.
Happy New year to all

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Love it Love it Love it Mary....Thanks for bringing that home.  The smile on my face will be glued on thru the rest of the day....Yay!!   (((((hugs)))))



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Hugs Mary! Thank you for sharing. I feel the same as you about 2015. What a beautiful share to start the New Year off with! Thanks!

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