The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
The C2C reading for today speaks about living life on life's terms. it points out that when we first arrive in alanon, we think we only have one problem- which is that of Living with the disease of alcoholism.
As we continue to attend program, we grow and change and believe that since we have such powerful tools, we will no longer encounter problemsin life. When we do we are surprised that even with Program we have not been able to avoid the difficulties in life .
The reading reminds us that alanon does not take away problems, but gives us the courage and insight to turn stumbling blocks into stepping stones
Quote is from H W Beecher :"Troubles are often the tools by which God fashions us for better things "
I have often smiled at the above quote and said" I do wish that HP would stop fashioning me I am tired"
The truth is that with these alanon tools: of acceptance of life on life's terms, placing principles above personalities , examining my motive, trusting HP as I live one day at a time, life is manageable I have the courage, wisdom and serenity to continue to grow..
I am grateful that the program has allowed me to learn that the disease is only one area of my life that needed improvement/repair/new approach.
I do love the quote - it's so point on for your journey!
Thank you Betty for a lovely share and your service...
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Practice the PAUSE...Pause before judging. Pause before assuming. Pause before accusing. Pause whenever you are about to react harshly and you will avoid doing and saying things you will later regret. ~~~~ Lori Deschene