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Please stop the madness


I know it's a cleche' people say dont take your loved ones for granted. I have seen it several times this week alone. But tonight I had to say goodbye to my soulmate of 24 years. I had always pictured us growing old together, sitting on a porch in our rockingchairs watching our grandchildren play... all of a sudden that other chair is empty. I'm thankful for the time we were blessed with and even though everybody has their ups and downs I would trade those hard patches any day for the beautiful times we shared. Please don't take your loved ones for granted, cherish what you have because you never know when that gift will end. With all the hate and ugliness in the world you need to grasp the love and never let go... I Love you Angie, always and forever, apart or together, love in every way, eternity and a day

 



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((Jamky)) I am truly sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing this beautiful tribute to your love, Angie. I will hold you both in my thoughts and prayers.


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I'm sorry to hear of your loss Jamky.  Prayers sent to you and your family.  Thank you for the reminder.  We all need to read and hear it frequently.  Stay well my friend.



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(((Jamky))) - so very sorry for your loss. What a perfect tribute to Angie and a great share.

Know that we are only a post away and we're here for you...

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Practice the PAUSE...Pause before judging.  Pause before assuming.  Pause before accusing.  Pause whenever you are about to react harshly and you will avoid doing and saying things you will later regret.  ~~~~  Lori Deschene

 

 



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My sincere condolences to you, praying for peace and serenity.

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Thoughts and prayers are with you.
(((Jamky)))

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If I had a world of my own, everything would be nonsense. Nothing would be what it is, because everything would be what it isn't. And contrary wise, what is, it wouldn't be. And what it wouldn't be, it would. You see? (Lewis Caroll)



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Thank you all


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So sorry jamky. You are right, even when the going sucks, just knowing that other person loves you, and you love them, can take you through a lot. I will make sure I go home and hug my wife extra hard tonight.

Kenny

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