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Debb - a wonderful day back to you! Love this prayer and boy howdy....it seems to summarize in a an easy format my blueprint for daily living. It took me a while in the program to realize that true peace of mind comes to me when I am working to be of service and of value - contributing to instead of taking from or draining.
I am so grateful to be at home today with just a few 'to-dos'....I've not yet totally got my arms around the emotional ride having a new grand-baby has brought to me. When my first grandson was born, my AS and I were not on speaking terms - I had been shut out. This time, I've been included the entire time and it's been such a gift to be of service.
Baby and mom came home yesterday. I was blessed to be the 'driver' and get them home, in, settled and comfortable. I then also got to pick up the 2 year old, and bring him home to see/meet baby Gus in their home. He was trying to share his apple with the baby - I almost cried with joy.
It's been a busy, emotional, crazy week - but all 'happy chaos'. I'll take this any day, every day over the crazy, drama filled days of active addiction.
If I choose joy, I give joy.
If I choose anger, I give anger.
If I choose peace, I bring peace.
This prayer and our own choices give us the power to determine how each moment of each day can be. While we are powerless over the disease, we are not powerless over how we choose to embrace life, people, places, things and events. I am so, so grateful for MIP, Al-Anon and each day I am given. So many gifts, so little time - :) !!
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Practice the PAUSE...Pause before judging. Pause before assuming. Pause before accusing. Pause whenever you are about to react harshly and you will avoid doing and saying things you will later regret. ~~~~ Lori Deschene