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Its a normal thing that happens to people, its biology, nature really. No need to shout about it? Well, ive been bitter, angry and resentful for so long due this disease i have that its a miracle. Ive allowed someone in, a miracle. Whether it works out or not, its happening, ive opened my mind wide enough to have this happen. Ive put down fears. I dont know whats happened. Ive just this day realised what the hell has been going on with me and now i know whats been going on with me. Im in love. Me, being me, ive tortured myself with my feelings, going over and over it, analysing, obsessing big time and then just today really the penny dropped after a wise person enlightened me that im in love and i done some research, as you do when your obsessive compulsive perfectionist. And there in black and white was written everything, all the hormones,nature is in control of me.
So now i know, im serene, im going with it, will try to enjoy it. Thanks for alanon, thanks for alanon people. Thanks for listening.x
Super duper cool!!!! Just let it happen and enjoy the ride. I have to share that I giggled while reading your post. I can 'see' me doing that - trying to figure out what on earth is 'wrong' with me when NOTHING is wrong, my heart, body and soul are just at peace and happy WITH another!!!
(((Hugs))) to you - I truly am very, very happy for you!!!
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Practice the PAUSE...Pause before judging. Pause before assuming. Pause before accusing. Pause whenever you are about to react harshly and you will avoid doing and saying things you will later regret. ~~~~ Lori Deschene
Aww, that's so awesome! I am in love with my new guy too. All kinds of crazy obsessive stuff going on in my head so I get it, but there's a whole lot of awesomeness too. Hugs and love to you today!
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You researched the symptoms? Oh el-cee, you are adorable!!!
Enjoy! Enjoy! Enjoy! It's a beautiful morning here today, and the spring in my step just got lighter, knowing that you are bringing yet more love into this world. Thank you so much for sharing it.
I wanna know more about this research you have been doing . I'm so happy that you have felt safe enough to open your heart, that's a major healing that has taken place! So happy for you!
http://www.youramazingbrain.org/lovesex/sciencelove.htm
This is one of the sites I visited. Lol. Thanks for your lovely words. Hope I've not jinxed it now. Lol.X
Thank you so much for sharing it. 
. I'm so happy that you have felt safe enough to open your heart, that's a major healing that has taken place! So happy for you!