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I have so much going on at the moment and it's all good, just very overwhelming so I'm Easy Does it .. Just Do It.
Another court date will be coming and I am not pleased at the moment however whatever .. it is what it is.
Tomorrow I have appointments for the kiddos for glasses .. hoping that the insurance for kids goes easy enough and the XAH will not give me a hard time about reimbursement. It's really money I can't afford to spend however .. my daughter needs glasses and contacts so I want to get her what she needs without question.
I also have a job interview which is huge and I'm grateful it's a temp agency. The biggest issue I have had is the problem of coming to a brand new city and trying to sell myself into a job. No real address, no real home here it's kind of scary.
Anyway, I'm very excited and hope to get everything I need accomplished so that I can move forward in a positive way. Kids are really doing great and I have missed my meetings this week. I'm going to try and make tomorrow's meeting, we'll see how that goes. I plan on looking like a major rock star tomorrow, hot hair, hot outfit and so on. I also am debating about playing in a big tournament here this next Sunday, top prizes are some good money and I don't know if it's the top players or if it's split out into top man and top woman kind of thing. I'll be curious to see how that goes.
Big hugs I was feeling a little down and then just had some great opportunities present themselves there is a housing possibility that if that happened would be totally amazing!!
S :)
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Faith minus vulnerability and mystery equals extremism. If you've got all the answers, then don't call what you do "faith". - Brene Brown
"Whatever truth you own doesn't own you" - Gary John Bishop
Good luck on your interview tomorrow. I'm sure you will rock it! Believe it or not I also have an interview tomorrow morning for a part time job as a receptionist/office manager at a dancing school. I'm kinda nervous but since I already have a job I really shouldn't be. I don't enjoy interviews at all. But who does? Let us know how you make out. I will be thinking of you!
Congrats. on the forward motion - an interview, a possible home - yay!!! I am sure you'll do great with your interview and hope you get to your meeting!
So sorry about the court date forthcoming - do you have to go? Is it possible that because of your relocation you can have your lawyer cover? Or possible participate via Video Chat? Just some thoughts for ya....as I think outloud in my head!
No worries as it's not 'now' - it's in the future - right?
Please keep us posted how the interview goes and best of efforts to ya!!
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Practice the PAUSE...Pause before judging. Pause before assuming. Pause before accusing. Pause whenever you are about to react harshly and you will avoid doing and saying things you will later regret. ~~~~ Lori Deschene
Good luck on the interview. Can I just tell you how much I admire your courage to start over in a brand new city? That takes b*lls! Sending positive thoughts and prayers your way!
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Never grow a wishbone where your backbone ought to be!
LOL .. I woke up thinking Texas ain't seen nothing like me and remember that I'm unique (aren't we all?!) however it is an opportunity to bring my A game to the floor and see where that puts me.
I think I'm a bumble bee .. there are things I do that honestly and logically umm no .. LOL .. me .. oh sure .. whatever!? That's what this move has been like I did find out that if I can make it through the first month of where we are at I will get a ton of taxes back that I have paid in and that's what I'm kind of aiming at if that's what it takes so 30 days where we are would be a good thing I'm still pursuing the additional housing obviously .. however I do feel like I can breathe a little.
Court .. yes, my XAH is convinced I moved here for a man so he's going to make this hard if he THINKS he can get away with paying less money. PLUS add to that the financial part of the decree is not done yet and it WILL be finished before to long or we will be in a face to face regarding court. I have no issue with that in the least. I've just decided to hang tough and it's not worth letting go because it is the next 4 years of my life and I deserve all of the additional help I can get. He hasn't met me in the past 3 years and has no idea who I really am which is very interesting to me he wants me in a box and I'm just to big for a simple box. It's like putting my HP in a box it just doesn't work that way.
Yank - Sending you LOTS of positive prayers and thoughts your way for your job interview what a fun place to work!!
Thanks for the support I just keep reminding myself the God of my understanding did not bring me this far to drop me on my butt .. this is just a small part of my evolution and healing.
S :)
PS - My kids laugh because they know and I have said I have bigger balls than either my XAH or his atty put together I just happen to wear mine on my chest .. proudly. LOL! I think my X's atty is starting to be convinced I'm a man in a woman's body .. I just do it better .. ha ha!
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Faith minus vulnerability and mystery equals extremism. If you've got all the answers, then don't call what you do "faith". - Brene Brown
"Whatever truth you own doesn't own you" - Gary John Bishop
Sounds like an exciting time and you're doing so many brave things - huge respect and admiration for where you're at.
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You are young, my son, and, as the years go by, time will change and even reverse many of your present opinions. Refrain therefore awhile from setting yourself up as a judge of the highest matters. Plato
ROFL - wearing your large balls on your chest.....ha.ha.ha.ha!!
You go girl, just keep working it as you wear it so well! This made my morning!!
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Practice the PAUSE...Pause before judging. Pause before assuming. Pause before accusing. Pause whenever you are about to react harshly and you will avoid doing and saying things you will later regret. ~~~~ Lori Deschene
