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All I can say is WOW on the meetings out here there is black belt Alanon everywhere it is wonderful. I love it.
It's still be a little frustrating and so asking for prayers regarding work I haven't had anyone respond to anything yet so I think I need to change up my resume. I still have some options and I'm ok and honestly didn't want to start working yet anyway. I also need a place to live so I'm hoping for that to get dealt with sooner than later.
So the debacle that is my X's atty and how bad he wants out of this case it's ridiculous. I had to laugh because I signed paperwork and X was suppose to sign I have no idea if he signed or not what I do know is that his atty's office lost the paperwork. I was like SERIOUSLY!? So I had to laugh and I just said whatever and took a breath, saying one thing at a time. I am not pleased as to the fact my X is still deciding when to pay me that is so not ok. I'm keeping my mouth shut until the agreed order is signed and in the system. That's the only thing keeping my mouth shut at the moment. Then I read the paperwork and once again they have screwed up on ages of the kids the last time it was my age .. LOL. I was like OMGOSH really? So supposedly it won't be an issue and if it is I have correspondence stating it wouldn't be an issue.
Anyway, other than that I'm just kind of riding the wave of what will be will be, more will be revealed and I really like that slogan a lot. I do want to hit more meetings and I do want to make sure that I'm staying up on my stuff so far so good.
Hugs S :)
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Faith minus vulnerability and mystery equals extremism. If you've got all the answers, then don't call what you do "faith". - Brene Brown
"Whatever truth you own doesn't own you" - Gary John Bishop
How cool is it that while you have a bit more time (not working yet) you've found some hard-core Al-Anon? That's what I call HP powered actions girl!
Great job keeping your peace while there is chaos with paperwork - that's one of my biggest buttons - misplaced and incorrect formal documentation - how does that even happen? Yet, it does, all the time so it seems. I don't like my personal information mishandled, so it always pushes my button in those moments.
Keep doing what you are doing and keep trusting your HP and program! I'm continuing to send positive thoughts and hugs for you and the kids...
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Practice the PAUSE...Pause before judging. Pause before assuming. Pause before accusing. Pause whenever you are about to react harshly and you will avoid doing and saying things you will later regret. ~~~~ Lori Deschene
