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missmeliss


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I wanted to thank everyone for their responses.

I am sorry my question ended up being so weird and maybe patronising. I was actually trying to gain some understanding for myself, to work through a relationship issue I am having. I wasn't meaning to be a weird nosey ghoul. I just found, the question was so big that I could not find a way to articulate it properly.

What people shared did help, and thank you all.

 

 

 



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No worries mel. All my posts are gay. Just kidding. Sort of...lol

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missmeliss


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lol. thanks Pink

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Mel, to me it just underscored how alike people are. When I got divorced from my hetero marriage, I was all focused on how other people would _____________. That is really what kept my sick self from taking the step for a long time. Now I see it is irrelevant what anyone else thought. Good old hindsight.
Wonder away. You're doing fine.

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missmeliss -

I didn't participate in that thread only because I had no ESH! I didn't see your post as offensive tho - just so you know!

I did read it as more inquisitive in nature...hope this makes sense! Evening is not prime time for me!!!

(((Hugs))) to ya!

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Missmeliss, I agree with Iamhere, did not respond because I did not have any ESH with which to draw on.  But like the others, I did not take offense at all.  smile



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