The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
I just wanted to drop a line to those living in small town USA where locating Al-Anon groups can be difficult.
Last night AH asked his sponsor about my dilemma in finding an appropriate ff meeting. Naturally the first suggestion wa she one I attended for a while, but did not mesh well with. The sponsor, however, knew nothing of this but stated I might not enjoy that one because it is more of a "click". I found that very validating when I heard.
None the less, he said there was a very good network here that he would provide me the data for (through AH, of course...I have never met him) and also encouraged me to read the "Big Book" chapters 8-9, as many times as I felt I needed to.
i mention this as a resource for others like me, who feel like they don't often belong in a "group" setting. Perhaps asking (or having your A ask) an AA sponsor or long timer will be of benefit for you too. I don't yet have the information, but I believe in this man and he will do what he says.
I realize MIP has online meetings and do not wish to detract from these in any way.
God bless!
-- Edited by Doingmybest on Tuesday 9th of June 2015 08:09:12 AM
Thanks for sharing DoingmyBest.....I am fortunate enough to live in a metro area with options.
I feel for those who have limited/no resources close by.
Make it a great day!!
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Practice the PAUSE...Pause before judging. Pause before assuming. Pause before accusing. Pause whenever you are about to react harshly and you will avoid doing and saying things you will later regret. ~~~~ Lori Deschene