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here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
I know both of you are in the same position I am in - staying away from our A's who we loved so much and needed in our lives. We've been through the ringer and the rollercoaster of I love you's and I hate you's.
I have been playing the same song everyday in my car on the way to work to keep me focused on me and not letting my ex come back and play the same crazy game with me.
Here are the lyrics to the song:
Gone-
What you see's not what you get With you there's just no measurement no way to tell what's real from what isn't there Your eyes they sparkle That's all changed into lies that dropped like acid rain you washed away the best of me you don't care
You know you did it I'm gone to find someone to live for in this world There's no light at the end of the tunnel tonight just a bridge that I gotta burn You are wrong If you think you can walk right through my door That is just so you coming back when I've finally moved on I'm already gone
Sometimes shattered never opened nothing matters when you're broken That was me whenever I was with you
Always ending, always over back and forth, up and down like a roller coaster I am breaking that habit today
You know you did it I'm gone to find someone to live for in this world There's no light at the end of the tunnel tonight just a bridge that I gotta burn You are wrong If you think you can walk right through my door That is just so you coming back when I've finally moved on I'm already gone
There is nothing you can say Sorry doesn't cut it babe Take the hint and walk away cause I'm gone Doesn't matter what you do It's what you did that's hurting you All I needed was the truth Now I'm gone What you see's not what you get What you see's not what you get
You know you did it I'm gone to find someone to live for in this world There's no light at the end of the tunnel tonight just a bridge that I gotta burn You are wrong If you think you can walk right through my door That is just so you coming back when I finally moved on I'm already gone I'm already gone I'm already gone
Maybe this will keep you focused like it does for me - to keep loving myself and not allow my ex to affect me anymore.
You have such a big heart to think of others and share such a powerful lyric. I am so happy for you and all the progress you have made! And now you are able to give back to others too. How touching. cdb xoxoxoxoxoxo
