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Whoops...I don't know what happened. I just posted a note, but it never hit the board. I hope it doesn't post twice.
I was saying that it's just after 7 pm here and I can't wait for this day to be over. It's been almost a month since my A husband moved out. It's been harder and more lonely than I ever imagined, but I still feel like it's the right thing to do. He's been going (he says) to AA, but says it's like a cult and don't expect him to keep going. He plans to go until he gets his one month chip. I'm hoping that even though he's not being sincere, some part of the AA program sinks in.
His anger has set in. I knew it would sooner or later. But thankfully, I have all my al-anon tools to help me. When he started picking a fight, I told him I would not participate. When he started screaming at me on the phone, I put it down.
I just read about how divorce is a process not an event. UGH! One day at a time, I guess!
