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Well, my A relapse last Friday, drank again on Superbowl Sunday and now has decided that he should be able to drink whenever he wants. I'm sad......not that he's drinking again but the last 3 months have been so wonderful. Yeah there were times of disagreements but it had nothing to do with alcohol and/or drugs. I am trying to find a positive side here. I am looking hard.
I am sorry that he relapsed. Maybe this will bring him that much closer to the very crisis that will have him seek help and get better. Keep hanging in there.
I am so sorry Mary. I know we are not supposed to have expectations, but after 3 months it would be hard not to have expectations. They make their own decisions. You can make you own decision to go to an alanon meeting, go to 2 alanon meetings or whatever helps you to get through this time for you.
Hi Mary going through this a little myslelf at the moment suspect my husband is at it again as he has a friend up who is a big drinker and they used to hit it together. I am detaching at the moment but definitely not with love. I guess like me you get a bit sick of being on the merry go round. All we can do is focus on us. Big Hugs and here for you if you need someone to talk to. Luv Leo xxx
