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I wanted to thank you who responded to my long post.
So many wise words you all shared. I do want to make it clear, i am hurt for me, not that I care what anyone thinks of me, meaning who my A husband has said bad things about me to.
Again it was the fact that he would do that. It killed something inside me. I don't care if he is A, i don't care that it was the disease talking. He and I have shared so much together. I feel like he just tore apart everything we ever have been thru.
Like someone said, he broke my soul. Never heard the slogan,"Don't take it Personally." It is hard not to when it is your husband talking, and he about covers everything about you, and makes it something negative.
I am seeing my doctor Thursday. Decided to cont. to eat healthy, lose weight. Looking into doing Curves.
doing for me, even though I don't really care right now.
OH loved the dog poems. They were wonderful. love,debilyn
You have always been an inspiration to me and I have learned so much from you sharing your life here. I will say prayers for you and make sure you do what you need to for your health too. You are worth it! cdb ((((((((((debilyn)))))) xoxoxoxox
Good to hear you are taking care of yourself. One of my character defects is - I read the message boards, maybe answer, maybe not, then, dont come back for a few days - everything changes!
I hear your pain, you have helped me many times, here on the boards - wish I could make things better for you.
Thinking of you, sending you (((((((BIG HUGS))))))),
