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I keep having the same type of dreams when it comes to my ex - and they are all centered around the same topic. I have had maybe 8 dreams about him since we broke up - and this morning I had one. I dreamt that I wanted him to call me and we were still sort of dating but he was acting funny. Finally I gave in to what I wanted and called him myself - of course the phone was turned off and I got his voicemail which had a very detailed message on it telling me why he couldnt answer the phone. Every dream I have about him comes down to excuses as to WHY he cant talk to me. What is that all about?? He would always answer the phone when we were together - he couldnt wait to hear from me and I never feared him ignoring me. Why do I fear this now??
I have always believed that dreams are our subconcious mind working out issues for us. I would think your dream means that you want to talk to him but know you cannot.
I too think that dreams are usually just our minds way of deaing with our lives as they are right now. Often I can't figure them out, and sometimes I find they are as simple as what I really want.
It also sounds to me like your dreams are saying that you can't reach your husband right now, though you want to.
Don't drive yourslef crazy trying to figure it out.
i figure that they are our subconcious way of telling us we would always be wondering where our guys would be, why cant they answer the phone, forever chasng after them and wondering is there something sinister going on..if the lies have started and what about etc...
i also had dreams where i could see my ex with other girls... (slappers really) and i know it would break my heart over and over to be with him and wonder if he was cheating...coz id never know. i cant go through the checking of his phone and pockets again..i dont want that role in any relationship...thats what my dreams were trying to tell me....
im afarid to get involved agan...and it would be bad for my health.
