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OMG! What do I have to do? be rude and kick these ppl out of my house? I ask what time they're done and they keep going on and on and on and on. One of the guys has been here since 9am YESTERDAY! ahhhhhh I want my house back to the normal chaos!
I have definitely been there done that and got the t shirt. It has made me re think a lot of my people pleasing boundary setting, wanting to be everyone's friend stuff a great deal. I practice boundaries all the time as a result of this kind of invasoin/boundary bashing. I am sorry you are put in that position. Maybe this time you can work on setting boundaries, meaning them and having consequences. I think that is very very very hard work for a codependent to do. So goo d luck on it. I know it will not be an easy task but nothing is harder than being in exasperation.
